The positive responses to my list of mental illness myths, plus some significant illnesses that had to be left out to keep the list to ten items, have inspired me to write a follow-up list. Here are ten more mental illnesses, and disorders, with commonly believed myths.

The Myth: Personality Disorders are incurable elements of a person.
There are a total of ten personality disorders: paranoid, schizoid, schizotypal, antisocial, borderline, histrionic, narcissistic, avoidant, dependant, obsessive-compulsive, depressive, and passive-aggressive. According to the World Health Organization, these personality disorders are diagnosed when “the individual’s characteristic and enduring patterns of inner experience and behavior” is abnormal — in other words, personality disorders have a pervasive affect on the person’s thoughts and behaviors, and have usually been part of the person for a long time.
Some people think that the name “personality disorders” and the fact that these disorders affect people so thoroughly mean that they are simply a part of the person and are, therefore, incurable. It may not always be possible to cure someone of a personality disorder, but people with personality disorders certainly can go through therapy to learn more useful ways of dealing with themselves and other people. Someone’s personality can change over time, and as is proved by many people who overcame mental illness, it is always possible (even if very difficult) to change patterns of thought and behavior.

The Myth: Psychopaths are all murderers/serial killers.
It’s not entirely clear to me what currently recognized disorder belongs to the idea of psychopathy — antisocial personality disorder overlaps, but is not the same — but I do know the definition. Psychopaths are self-centered, superficially charming, callous, reckless, fearless and irresponsible, have no empathy for other people or sense of guilt, and often can lie as easily as tell the truth, because they don’t particularly care whether what they say is true. Certainly, the charm and lack of empathy or guilt would make a psychopath an excellent serial killer. On the other hand, their lack of planning might cause problems when it comes to covering up that crime.
Still, even if it would be easy for somebody like this to commit murder, psychopaths may live their lives simply lying and making reckless decisions, not killing people. Plus, many serial killers are psychotic (“crazy” or delusional) or have one of a variety of other problems rather than being psychopathic, so “psychopath” is not a synonym for someone who doesn’t mind committing murder.

The Myth: People with learning disabilities are less intelligent than people who don’t have them.
In response to the many people who complained, on the last list, that dyslexia is not a mental illness, learning disabilities usually negatively affect somebody’s life and aren’t caused by physical reasons, and they are listed in the Diagnostic and Statistics Manual of Mental Disorders, so I believe they belong on this list.
There is a large variety of learning disabilities, including dyslexia, dyscalculia (unusual trouble with math), auditory processing disorder, dysgraphia (problems writing), and issues with spatial awareness.
It’s a common idea that people with learning disabilities, because they learn slowly in classroom environments that are not suited to them, are less intelligent than their peers. In fact, many people with learning disabilities are highly intelligent, though of course they don’t have to be, and most are unusually creative. Some of them are most intelligent in an area that, unfortunately, isn’t emphasized in school, so they struggle in the classes that schools think are most important. These people simply learn and think in different ways than average people, not in worse ways.

The Myth: Agoraphobia is a fear of open places.
“Agoraphobia” literally means “fear of the marketplace”. It is often considered to be a fear of open or public places. People who suffer from panic attacks often develop agoraphobia because they want to avoid any situation that might cause an attack. Other people with agoraphobia haven’t actually had panic attacks, but are afraid of similar things — for instance, a sense that they will pass out. Agoraphobia can be so severe that someone who suffers from it may be unable even to leave the house
But agoraphobia is not specifically a fear of open places. Instead, it is a fear of places that the phobic person cannot easily escape from, if they need to for some reason – most likely if they start to have a panic attack. An open area offers few places to hide within a short distance, and a public place would be embarrassing to get out of. I’ve even heard a suggestion that agoraphobia is most similar to claustrophobia, in that it is a fear of being trapped somewhere.
To be fair, this is not the only reason for someone to be agoraphobic; every expert seems to have a slightly different opinion of what agoraphobia means. However, they are in agreement that it is often mostly about panic, and it certainly doesn’t just happen in open spaces.

The Myth: Depression only affects a person’s mood.
Depression is, by far, the most common mental illness in the United States, with about 17% of people suffering from clinical depression at some point in their life. Depression causes persistent, long-term feelings of sadness and hopelessness and a lack of interest in activities that the depressed person once enjoyed. It’s easy to think that depression is only an emotional problem, but depression also has a lot of relations to the physical body as well.
First, depression can be caused by physical reasons, most commonly as an imbalance of chemicals in the body. Chronic pain and some physical illnesses also cause depression. At the same time, people often feel more pain when they are depressed, either because they are more stressed, they are dwelling on their pain more, or depression just causes pain to become worse. Depression also usually causes people to sleep more or less and eat more or less, depending on the individual, and those habits have a major physical effect. There are various other connections between depression and the physical body as well.
So if you know someone who is depressed, don’t imagine that they’re just sad. Not only are they a lot more than “just sad” but emotions are not the only thing involved.

The Myth: Social Anxiety Disorder is a fancy name for shyness.
Social anxiety disorder is one of the most common mental illnesses — yet it’s not well known at all. One of the reasons it is so often ignored is that many people consider it to be just the same as shyness, and not a problem. People with social anxiety disorder are afraid of social situations and social judgement, and tend to be nervous about things like meeting new people or asking questions in school, like shy people. However, there are many ways in which SAD is different than shyness.
One of these differences is that shy people are more likely (though not guaranteed) to warm up after a while in a social situation and to naturally become more confident as they get older. People with SAD, on the other hand, are more likely to have strikingly different behavior between different situations: some (not all) of them are entirely at ease socializing with family members or friends but change completely, almost acting like a different person, when they face something that makes them nervous. A bigger difference is that people with SAD start worrying about anxiety-causing situations in advance, causing them to either avoid the situation or to become even more stressed when they are in it.
But the main contrast is that social anxiety disorder is a disorder. People who are only shy are able to deal with situations that make them nervous, so they can do what they need to do. When someone’s shyness becomes so severe that it causes them to fail a school project because they can’t present it to the class, have trouble making friends, be unemployed because they can’t handle job interviews, or they become very unhappy about their trouble with social situations or otherwise have shyness severely affect their life, they have social anxiety disorder.

The Myth: Manic episodes are enjoyable times of great creativity.
This is a myth that sometimes can be true. People who suffer from bipolar disorder have alternating periods of depression and an elevated mood known as mania. Mania usually involves feelings of happiness, energy, inappropriately high self-esteem, and lack of inhibition or self-control. This can allow creativity to come more easily, since a manic person will just use their ideas, without considering how good or bad they are. Some artists or writers with manic depression actually do not want treatment, because their manic episodes are so useful to them, even if the depression is miserable.
On the other hand, there are a lot of negative aspects of mania, like a shortened attention span and a lack of sleep. The lack of inhibitions can cause spending sprees that the person cannot afford, inappropriate social behavior, or dangerously reckless actions. Mania can also cause irritability and a short temper, as much as it can create pleasant feelings, and it may impair a person’s life as much as depression does.
In addition, most people with bipolar disorder aren’t unusually creative in their manic phases, since they are not naturally inclined to be creative in the first place. (It might be that manic depression is just more noticeable and interesting in artists and writers, causing us to hear about them more often.) Plus, not everyone with bipolar disorder actually gets full-fledged mania. They can be diagnosed with the disorder if they have episodes of depression alternating with episodes of positive feelings that are not as extreme as mania. Like a lot of disorders, there are various severities of problems that all earn the diagnosis of bipolar disorder.

The Myth: People with bulimia always purge by inducing vomiting.
Well, this is turning out to be a pretty sad list, what with two anxiety disorders, two types of depression, and now bulimia, which tends to co-exist with depression and anxiety. But don’t worry — the final two items will go in different directions.
Bulimia is one of a large number of eating disorders, some of which can be found on our list, “10 Terrible Eating-Related Disorders”. People with bulimia are intensely concerned either with losing weight or maintaining their current weight. However, they can’t or don’t want to avoid eating altogether, so they eat a normal or unusually large amount of food (binge) and then find some way to get rid of it (purge). The binge-purge cycles are usually not entirely under the person’s conscious control, especially not after the person has been bulimic for a long time.
One of the most common ways to purge is to induce vomiting. There are, however, other ways. Many bulimic people use laxatives, diuretics, or diet pills. Others exercise to work off the weight they believe they gained from a meal or fast in compensation for the food they ate when they binged. So, just because somebody does not throw up after meals does not mean that they are not bulimic.

The Myth: Someone who gets amnesia forgets his or her past and identity.
Amnesia is, basically, memory loss. When we hear about amnesia in books and movies, it usually involves a loss of most or all memories from before the time that the amnesia began. This is not, however, how amnesia usually works.
Amnesia is usually caused by some kind of damage to the brain by injury, drugs, or illness, and a type of amnesia called “dissociative amnesia” is created by psychological reasons, usually resulting from a traumatic event. There are two general kinds of amnesia according to their effect: anterograde and retrograde. Anterograde amnesia causes people to have trouble forming new memories. Retrograde amnesia causes people to forget memories that they already had. A lot of people with amnesia suffer from both kinds. For instance, one of the more common kinds of amnesia occurs when someone gets a head injury and forgets both the events leading up to the injury and what happened immediately afterwards. A severe form of mixed amnesia could include forgetting some past events as well as having permanent problems with new memories.
One thing that is rarely taken away is memories of how to do something. Once you know how to ride a bike, you will always know how to ride a bike, even if you get severe retrograde amnesia. Another thing that usually stays, even in the worst cases, is some sense of personal identity. Not everything about a person’s past is lost, so they still have some idea who they are. For instance, one famous amnesia patient, KC, can’t remember any event from before or after his accident, but still recognizes his family members. It is possible for someone to temporarily lose any memory of their identity, caused by a psychological problem called a “dissociative fugue”, but this is extremely rare compared to other types of amnesia.
One movie that is fairly accurate about severe amnesia is Memento. If you have not seen this, you absolutely should, but be warned that you may have to watch it twice before you understand the plot.

The Myth: People with Tourette syndrome swear uncontrollably.
I absolutely can’t believe I left this one off the last list. Well, here it is.
What is Tourette syndrome? You’ll probably say it’s when someone involuntarily says swear words. That’s true — in less than ten percent of cases. A better description of Tourette syndrome (TS) is a disorder where people feel the need to make a specific movement or sound, called a tic, the same way everyone has a desire to blink or to scratch something that itches. People with TS can control their tics, but that’s very difficult, and sometimes it causes the tics to be worse after they give in. The frequency of tics can change between situations and over time, usually getting better as the person gets older.
People with Tourette Syndrome have two kinds of tics: motor and vocal. The most common motor tic is excessive eye-blinking. Other examples are grimacing or moving arms or legs. The most common vocal tic is actually throat-clearing, but vocal tics can also include saying words, making meaningless sounds, or even repeating what someone else has said (echolalia). Tics in themselves aren’t usually a problem, but they can be annoying and cause negative reactions from other people (particularly if the vocal tic does involve inappropriate words), and TS can be related to ADHD and Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder.
Hopefully, this entry, and the entire list, has helped to point out that there is more to mental disorders than the most common or popular versions showed in the media.




















Kurt Vonnegut’s “Slapstick,” the “hi-ho” was clearly Tourette’s. Thanks for the education.
In vice city, ken had agorophobia.
Might have been the gangsters XD
please keep making more lists like this!!!
Very nice list. I just took a psych class, so this was all fresh in my memory, but nice to read nonetheless. The only downside is that after reading stuff like this or studying psychology is that you come away feeling like you have most of the disorders. The only thing I have to say about the content is that I was under the impression that elevated mood and happiness is actually the less common manifestation of mania in manic-depressives. More often it’s aggression, hostility, and impatience. But you obviously seem to know more about it than I, so I’ll take your word for it. Good list.
Me too! except i think i’m just a sociopath and a mythomaniac. Paradox right there: if i =’m a lier and admit i’m a lier, am i an lier ?
I’m really interested in psychology and behaviour maybe i’ll take a class in uni.
So agoraphobia is the fear of panic attacks. Very well written and informative list.
No, not all agoraphobes have panic attacks, and many who suffer from panic attacks are afraid of them but are still capable of functioning in public places.
Got some insight on some mental illnesses I knew very little about. The Tourette Syndrome bit I did know coz i remember watching one episode of Oprah and she was talking to some kids who had Tourette Syndrome. It’s sad how they have to cope and most of them said they didn’t like substitute teachers coz they would get upset when they had episodes since they didn’t understand their illness
very informative .,., i think i had disorder no 5 till a certain age..
I’m 21 and I have social anxiety disorder which messed up my grades in high school. I was so petrified about doing presentations that I just accepted 0s on everything, just like the list points out. I wanted to do them because I didn’t want to ruin my grades, but I couldn’t bring myself to stand up in front of everyone and do it. My therapist thinks one reason I developed SAD was because of the relentless verbal bullying I endured throughout middle school. So yeah… support anti-bullying campaigns, please.
Informative list.
Arthur Lee, the leader of the underrated band Love, was reputed to be agorophobic (or maybe borderline schizophrenic) as he would not allow his band to tour outside of LA during the late sixties.
Well he obviously got over it cus I’ve seen Love at lest twice live in the UK, before his death.
True, Lee did ultimately sporadically tour in the ’70s until his death in 2006 (not counting of course his time in jail), but he screwed up by not doing so during the late sixties when Love’s classic line-up was intact. This seriously hurt the group’s career as they could have been remembered as more than being a cult act. When Lee rejected an offer to perform at the Monterey Pop Festival, he missed the boat. Love was always more popular in Europe than their native US (i.e., “Forever Changes” made the Top 30 in England whereas it peaked at a miserable #154 in the US). BTW, their first 3 albums were excellent and are worth searching out. Still, overall Love rates as being the most frustrating case of “What If?” in rock music history.
Messiah Syndrome? Where he/she thinks there a saviour? That`s what Hitler is thought to have had.
There’s no such thing as a Messiah Syndrome per se; there is a Messiah complex, but this is a symptom rather than an actual mental illness. There is some suggestion that Hitler may have been bipolar.
Hitler quite likely had bipolar disorder, or manic-depressive psychosis as it was called at the time, along with other issues like narcissistic personality disorder. Apparently there is even some evidence to suggest that he was diagnosed with it as a young man, and may have held some personal bias against manic-depressives specifically. Mental patients were actually the first group targeted for systematic extermination under Hitler. It was considered “euthanasia” and meant for people with incurable disorders and at the top of the list were the manic-depressives.
Very Interesting , but eish , I cant take these lists , they make my hypochondria flair up big time . On an un-related note, squirming buffalo trombone pleasantry ?
Damn! You said it before I had a chance.
I have Tourette’s including copralalia (the cursing twitch), and I can tell you now that it can be a living hell. Following the advice of my doctors, I try to live my life like a normal person, but I have parents of small children openly scream at me in public all the time. When one starts, others get brave and join in. I love my nieces and nephews, but buying them toys is torture because of this. My co workers are constantly harassinge and limiting me. Often they realize a trigger that will make me twitch and will intentionally do whatever it is. There’s just not a lot of understanding out there about what it is. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been forced to talk to a manager or the police. To make things worse, I have OCD and severe social anxiety. The higher your stress, the worse your ticks.
Thank you for posting the bit about Tourette’s Syndrome. I hope it helps spread the word.
Really nice list, well written and interesting topic! As someone with clinical depression I always really like/appreciate seeing real understanding of mental issues. Cheers
Thank you so much for including number eight. I have a math related learning disablity and all through school I had people who treated me like I was a idiot because of that one special ed class and tutors when I was in regular or advanced classes for other subjects.
Great list! Glad to see that Tourette Syndrome made it on this one. That is one disorder that is very poorly understood by the general public. I’ve been a sufferer my whole life, but because even I didn’t know what TS really was, I didn’t even know that’s what I had until my mid 20′s!
Another disorder that is not well-known is Pure-O OCD. It is not as visible as “normal” OCD, because sufferers do not exhibit all the compulsions, but we do have the intrusive thoughts. As a result, it is difficult to focus on one thought at a time. Pure-O OCD is often misdiagnosed as ADD or ADHD.
Very interesting list and very well written. I used to get SAD, no not Social Anxiety Disorder (I love to speak in front of crowds of people), but Seasonal Affective Disorder – caused by not enough exposure to natural light during the winter time -appearantly.
‘Another’ 10 mental illnesses seem to be quite the known ones. I wonder what the original list had.
P.S. You could have used ray william johnson’s pic for number 1. would have made it more interesting.
(and the guy wouldn’t have minded it either!)
I’m not sure if it’s just a difference between the UK and America, but a learning disability is not the same as a mental illness. Also, dyslexia and discalculia are learning difficulties not learning disabilities. Learning disabilities affect how a person understands new or complex information, learns new skills and copes independently. That is the nhs definition.
In Law, that’s what is referred to as a distinction without a difference.
I think you are right here. Seems mainly rhetoric and word changing.
Actually, there is a very real difference. Having difficulty with reading, writing or numbers etc. Is NOT the same as a learning disability. A person with a mild learning disability can have trouble understanding information taken for granted by most, and a person with moderate to severe LD can, in the worst cases, be unable to take care of themselves on a daily basis (e.g. dressing or eating).
But you didn’t make a distinction between the two there, you just described degrees of severity.
I described degrees of severity regarding learning disabilities. I stated that difficulties and disabilities are different. Perhaps I’m not phrasing it very well. I just wanted to make the point that this list does not accurately describe learning disability. Other than that I thought it was a great list. If you really want to know the difference, then look into it yourself.
Great list.
A good read this morning. I learned a lot about Tourettes because my daughter has it. She rolls her eyes up and blinks, which is then followed by a whistle. It\’s mild and if no attention is brought to it, the symptoms only repeat about 2-3 times. If attention is drawn to it, she doesn\’t stop unless distracted by something else. She also has OCD but only at grocery stores. If cans are facing the wrong way or if there are gaps, she starts to arrange the shelves. I have to have her go and get stuff in order to break her of the habit. Keeps her busy and not focused on the shelves.
Cool list.
When I lived in the Los Angeles area, Sherman Oaks, I used to go to one particular coffee house every morning for my daily caffeine fix. Another of the regulars, who always was there ahead of me, no matter how early I arrived, was a Tourettes sufferer…sufferer may not be the correct phrase, he certainly had Tourettes but, aside from some antic tics and bizarre vocalizations, I never saw any sign which led me to believe he was “suffering”.
He seemed to have successfully incorporated his tics, both physical and verbal, into his life, and just went on about his business.
Certainly, on occasion, some dolt would say something derogatory to him, but the reaction the idiot got from the Touretter, a full-blown, no holds barred display of the disease, usually frightened the guy (always an adolescent, or early twenties male) into running away as fast as possible…never to be seen again.
He knew what he was doing. He kept his Tourettes under as much control as possible on a regular day to day. But give him cause, and he let go, flinging all the saved up energy at the idiot who said, or did, the wrong thing.
Nice guy.
Someday someone will come up with the idea for a ‘normal behaviour disorder’, just to make the list of possible disorders you can have full…
Yeah, or Stupid Tosser Disorder for people who disregard mental illness out of hand.
Yay for explaining Tourettes we have a coworker that seems to have it (he repeatedly says “mnhmn” over and over in conversation and if you pass him buy sometimes) and I spent an entire lunch hour explaining why Tourette does not equal swearing.
Not sure where you learned to count or found this information about personality disorders. While there are in fact 10 personality disorders, you listed 12. The last two (depressive and passive-aggressive) are not personality disorders in the current edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV-TR). I’ve never heard of them before, but perhaps they are being looked at for consideration for the DSM-V.
Did I list 12? Oops! I don’t know how I didn’t notice that. The last two are listed in “Appendix B: Criteria Sets and Axes Provided for Further Study”. So they’re not exactly recognized, but they’re there. But you’re right – I should only have listed the first ten…
Don’t get all politically correct by saying “These people simply learn and think in different ways than average people, not in worse ways.” that’s simply not true. Objectively we measure how well somebody learns by the speed at which someone absorbs new information and holds on to it, if because of a learning disabillity you do that slower, then you’re obviously a worse learner. Now if you wanna make those people feel good about themselves, don’t lie to them and say their just as good “in their own way”, that’s just condescending. These people are alittle worse for reasons out of their control and there’s no need to feel ashamed about that, that’s what you should’ve said.
I think the author’s point was that learning difficulties/disabilities do not imply lesser intelligence. Intelligence is a measure of one’s ability to reason. Learning speed has no bearing on intelligence, only on the rate at which knowledge is gained. Alternate teaching methods can produce the desired increase in learning speeds.
There are plenty of different interpretations of the word “intelligence.”
Rate of absorption of information is one definition, what people do with that information another. And it also varies depending on how good someone is at something, and most people are good at something.
Besides, most people learn in different ways. Just because one person does not learn the same way doesn’t make them less intelligent.
Objectively we measure how well somebody learns by the speed at which someone absorbs new information and holds on to it, if because of a learning disabillity you do that slower, then you’re obviously a worse learner.
As both A-Tiger and Canuevea alluded to, the person with the disability is not a “worse” learner. They are only “slower” relative to the confines of the one generic way that public schools typically teach. Since that one generic way of teaching is not the only way, then you shouldn’t use that way as a basis for ranking of an individual’s ability to learn.
It’s kind of like solving a puzzle – if two people using different methodologies both solve it in roughly the same amount of time, then neither method is better or worse than the other. The end result is what is important, not how you got there. There’s no pc agenda about that explanation. It is what it is.
Such an informative and well-written list! Commendations to the author.
No. 8 poses an interesting point about our ‘learning’ systems. It’s so regulated, uniform, and restrictive that I wonder how beneficial it actually is.
No. 5 is the one most relevant to myself and would like to thank the author for noting that clinical depression is not all emotional. I myself can tell when my body/mind is preparing to go into a depressive state (seemingly from nowhere) based on physiological/chemical changes I myself cannot explain.
Good list. A couple of corrections from MD, although its been a while since my last Psych rotation I treat many people in-patient with many psych issues. 1st personality disorders are the most difficult to treat and success rate is abysmal especially in narcissistic and borderline. Next, there is no DSM diagnosis of psychopathy. What the lister is describing is anti-social personality disorder which the layman refers to as sociopaths. Psychotics, or those suffering from psychosis, happens when people have “breaks” from reality often experiencing hallucinations (auditory most common, but visual and tactile too) and severe wide ranging delusions. This can happen in broad range of illnesses including schizophrenia, bipolar, depression, and substance abuse among others. Lastly, what the lister describes as mania in bipolar section is actually hypomania seen in type 2 bipolar. Actual mania seen in type one requires hospitalization and involves severe delusions and psychosis and does not allow much time for creative works. Another myth involving bipolar is people have highs and lows on regular basis but this type of “rapidly alternating” bipolar is extremely rare. Most people with bipolar will remain in depressive or hypomanic state for months to years at a time before alternating mood (unless they receive treatment). Most people with bipolar are diagnosed with depression because they only go to see a physician when they are depressed and avoid going to doctor when feeling “up”. Personally I feel both Bipolar as well as ADHD are serious treatable conditions but are overdiagnosed in this country (USA), but that’s a discussion for later time…
Thank you for your excellent points. My brother has a whole slew of mental and personality disorders and for whatever reason they seem to be the ones that laypeople least understand. Sociopathy (anti-social personality disorder) is far too often confused with psychopathy. The biggest distinction between the two is the breaks with reality. Sociopaths, unless they have other illnesses with associated psychosis, are fully in touch with reality. My brother is a complicated and interesting study in mental illness. He has bipolar with associated psychosis (with both seasonal and rapid cycling), OCD, seasonal affective disorder, anti-social personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder, and histrionic personality disorder. He’s a terrible mess of self-love and admiration and self-hatred and loathing, depending on seemingly nothing most of the time. While personality disorders are theoretically “curable,” there would be no way to tell with my brother because he’s so adept at acting the part and manipulating people and situations to his pleasing. That’s part of the problem. And this list really did not describe bipolar disorder well at all. There are many ways it presents, with some people having barely noticeable mood swings and able to live completely normal lives, with the other extreme being incapable of anything resembling a normal life. My brother experiences two main shifts a year, with spring to fall being manic and fall to spring being depressive. However, he fluctuates on a weekly to daily basis within those two shifts, and if he’s self-medicated with drugs in any way, there is no telling what his mood could be. Growing up with someone so incredibly different from the norm, especially since children were not diagnosed with bipolar at that time so no medical treatment ever worked, was difficult to say the least.
I ended up on lots of tangents here, but again, thank you for your well-informed and correct posting.
This list was really well written and very informative. A lot of people really don’t understand depression very well, so I was glad to see some of it’s myths cleared up. Depression has been linked (to an extent) to heredity. I can testify that seasonal affective disorder is VERY real. I’m depressed almost exclusively in the winter. My girlfriend has depression that’s usually worse than mine. We do what we can to help each other, but it can be a real burden on our relationship. For those of you who want to know what it feels like to be depressed, I would describe it as the feeling Harry Potter (believe it or not) experiences when attacked by dementors: “like I could never be happy again.” It’s downright miserable, and there are a lot of people like me with an irrational fear of getting help. Yes, I can recognize that my fear is irrational, but no, I won’t go. My only rational fear of it is being put on medication. Medication would change my personality. It would change who I am entirely. While I may get depressed, I’m a very interesting person and I never want to lose that.
Anyway, usually I’m fine. I’m typically a pretty happy, easy-going person. It’s always there a little though. It’s there in my apathy and in my lack of motivation. I’m learning how to deal with these things as best I can. Wow. That was a really long rant. Well, that’s my experience with this. Thank God it’s summer
Not sure if my previous longer comment is in moderation or failed to post… hence if one appears above this one that is similar but longer, forgive me. But was just interested to note that you also suffer from apathy and lack of motivation as well, as part of your depression. I suffer the same fate and am finding it difficult to traverse university into a career unlike my peers, despite me wishing to prefer to not be apathetic and actually have motivation. However did you manage a career without calling yourself a ghost as I do call my circumstance?
I haven’t. I’m still in college and not doing well. I’m going to have to start finding ways to motivate myself. It’s going to be difficult, but my only choices right now are total success or total failure. I can’t coast through in mediocrity anymore. I’m going to have to, as my mom would put it, suck it up. It’s going to be difficult, but I’m ready to turn this around.
Your picture is deceptive haha. Though I shouldn’t have judged. My choices are similar. I’m either going to become homeless or highly successful. Either one could be interesting, but neither choice seems more or less palatable considering my apathy.
My picture is because I’m a Tolkien fan. I strongly recommend success or at least something similar. Do it if only to spite your own negative thoughts.
Auburn Tiger, I offer a friendly objection to your ideas about medication. I don’t know if you have tried it or not, but I would just say that it might not do what you think it does, ie change your personality. I have bipolar disorder and for several years after I was diagnosed I resisted anti-depression meds because I was afraid they would change me. After so many cycles of pain I decided to try some and it was what I had thought at all. They didn’t make me happy, but they helped keep me from going quite so low, made it easier to have positive thoughts. I still have lows but they are easier to bear. I think that suffering through depression so much can change your personality more than a few pills can. For me, I think that for a time part of my depression itself was the feeling that I somehow deserved to feel bad. I think that finding the right meds and right doses has helped me a lot, and saved me a lot of pain.
The main reason I’m wary of them is that my girlfriend has tried several medications with varyingly poor results. Her meds generally killed her personality. Even though I know medications can affect everyone differently, that was enough to scare me off of them. Typically I’ve got my situation under control. I just have to find away to motivate myself and not displace my responsibility on a doctor. That being said, meds could be the answer for most people.
Did my reply (to Auburn Tiger) get moderated, which is why it is taking so long to post? Although that would be unusual given it was not of an inflammatory or hateful kind at all. Or did my comment fail to post?
One of the best lists I’ve read in a while
Interesting list. I recently did a quick study on depression and just though I’d add a little extra point:
Psychologists have worked out that to maintain average ‘happiness’ or emotional stability, you need an emotional ratio of 3:1, that is three good thoughts to every bad thought each day, but one factor believed to contribute to depression is that this ratio becomes 1:1, so for every positive thought there is one negative one. However, psychologists believe that this is actually what the ‘normal’ ratio should be, and average people are just creating more positive thoughts and experiences for themselves, so depressed people are simply looking at the world ‘as it is’, so to speak. I thought that point was pretty interesting!
That’s interesting. I will say that while depressed, the ratio feels more like 1:12. I would not say that I see the world as it is just because of a 1:1 good/bad thought ratio though. Typically I think pretty irrationally (I’m a very rational person) and sometimes I show signs of paranoia. Maybe thats the thought ratio during depression’s more passive phase… At any rate, I wouldn’t recommend it.
I wish schools would realize that people learn differently. I had a heck of a time in school because I don’t learn by being told something or reading about it then answering questions. I have to do what I am learning in order for it to sink in. I was well into adulthood before I “got” math because I had to use it to know what I was doing.
I avoided college to avoid all that stress for awhile but I wanted to learn a certain trade and had no choice but to go to school for it. All the other students were doing great and I just couldn’t do it. Luckily, I found a place that would apprentice me and soon I was thriving and ended up doing excellent work.
You can tell me the same thing and have me try to memorize the same thing over and over but I have to do what I am learning as I’m learning it.
People are always claiming it’s bad teachers when kids can’t learn-maybe a lot of kids are like me and they are expected to learn in the traditional way?
Some schools are doing that now if they hadn’t been for a while. I teach art parttime at 6-7ish different elementary schools (3 public, 2 private, and almost 2 Homeschool co-ops since 1 is still under contract negotiations) and I’ve been given a crash course in the teaching philosophies of a few of my schools. Sometimes when I’m not working, I might slip into a certain teaching mode that my friends find bizarre but there are a number of kids on whom it works really well (but also some that simply don’t match up well with certain teaching styles). I’ve got a couple kindergartners in one of my private schools who already understand the basic concept of multiplication and some (kindergartners as well) that already know cursive. Of course, the only problem with some of these specialized schools with specialized teaching processes is the highly special tuition rates…
I get what you personally mean, though. I’ve got single sided deafness so lecture-heavy classes and classrooms with horrible accoustics (college lecture halls for instance) almost guaranteed that I’d get poor grades. I was a prolific note-taker/borrower and a notes-doodler because it was easier for me to learn by writing or drawing things out rather than listening.
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This was an amazing list. A lot of what I learned in psychology was seen in this list and it helped me have a deeper understanding of what I learned. Very well written. Very well researched. Good job!
Great list.
Well theres actually a name for people that cuss for no reason. Coprolalia the spontaneous utterance of socially objectionable or taboo words or phrases.
It is in the Tourette group. There are two others that I know of.
Coprolalia – literally, “***** talking”. Wonder who came up with that one.
Interesting. Thank you.
Very excellent list this morning. Shame that there is still so much stigma associated with mental illness; you’d think that by now we’d have replaced fear and shame with pity and compassion.
Although I have great sympathy for people with learning disabilities (one of my kids has a problem recognizing symbols….letters are symbols eh?), I’ve never considered it along the same lines as mental illness. One is related to how you process information, the other related to how you perceive it…..
thank you for the SAD entry. I was diagnosed with SAD four years ago and i didnt really understand that myself, because im not shy at all. i do alot of acting and preforming for people, but when im around alot of people i dont know, like at a social gathering, i freak, its a really scary feeling
I’m a bit like that as well, although I haven’t been diagnosed with SAD. It doesn’t bother me to play guitar in front of a crowd, but job interviews, class presentations or if I’ve had to introduce myself to new people… all of those situations have always been hell on earth to me. Performing, on the other hand, is quite OK. It’s kind of weird, but I’m glad to know I’m not the only one.
I enjoyed the read very much, well written and presented.
Thanks Tessa.
i have asbergers and i just happen to be shy coincidencely
I HAVE TOURETTES
LICK MY P#SSY @SS *****SH!T
People like you are a big part of what makes life so hard on people that actually suffer from Tourette’s, like myself.
After reading 8 I suspect that I have some sorta slight learning disabilities :/
I have always learned things differently to others…
Informative and well-written list, Tessa. I enjoy your writing style, it flows just like a regular conversation and the explanations aren’t overly technical. Good job!
I agree. In addition to being informative and easy to read, it keeps the reader interested. It brings real quality to the site in my opinion.
Very well done and thoughtfull list!
I have a degree in Psychology and I am working on a Masters in counseling so I know most of the information on this list. However, I think that it is great that you have put this information up for others to read. More people need to understand what people with mental illnesses really go through. Also, Memento is an amazing movie, one of my favorites of all time.
I’m glad that you included depression. I was diagnosed with clinical depression when I was 18 (I displayed symptoms since the age of 11). Getting treatment and counseling made me realize that it really is an illness. Unfortunately, many people still view it as a social stigma and tell people to ‘get over it and be happy.’I'm a graduate student and have done a lot with my life, thanks to appropriate treatment.
There is a large variety of learning disabilities,
*are
Sorry, but this shot the whole list for me. What’s the word for a grammar learning disability?
Are you serious? I make one minor error and you don’t like the whole list? I do not have any trouble with grammar. I’m usually the person who corrects someone else’s.
Anyway, I said “there is A large variety”… To me, “a variety” sounds singular enough to use “is”, though I also see the point of using “are”.
This is none of my business, but I’d like to say Elemarth is right about this. “There is a large variety” is grammatically correct, the indefinite article “a” refers to the singular word “variety”, not to the plural “disabilities” in this sentence.
nice list!!!
Number 10 is not entirely accurate. Although personality disorders can be treated through therapy, they are “incurable”. They are listed in under the 5-axes diagnosis in the DSM-IV-TR under Axis II, along with the autistic spectrum, because they are lifelong disorders. No matter how much therapy or treatment someone with a personality disorder receives, they will always live with the same mindset. Therefore, personality disorders cannot be “cured”.
In Finding Forrester, Sean Connery plays a guy with agorophobia and does it quite well.
What? This was a horrible list. This is not the product of anyone who actually practices psychology, right? Please dear God tell me this is not a practicing psychologist.
No, it’s a practicing psychopath.
Good List.. #5 hits home.
Interesting list. I wonder what the current stats are on each illness. I’m sure many people suffer from some of these without their family and friends (and in some cases, even themselves) being aware of it.
Yes,many people do suffer with these kinds of things and usually do not realise.It is quite often a family member or someone very close to them who will notice the signs first.
I’m 16 and i’m pretty sure I have SAD. It really does ruin your life. I’ll leave school in 2 years time and i’m so scared all my friends will go seperate ways and I’ll be alone. If I go to a therapist will this help at all? i want to change so much, I feel like I’m just wasting what should be the best years of my life. I suggested it to my mother but she just says get over it or you just have to put yourself out there. I have a huge problem with blushing which I think is connected to this . People don’t take it seriously
A therapist may help, depending on the therapist. A lot of them don’t understand SAD because it’s only gotten attention very recently. You could also get self-help books on overcoming anxiety and depression (they’re very similar therapy-wise).
Try doing some online research and finding things that explain how you can’t just put yourself out there when you have that kind of anxiety. It’s too much for you to do. You have to take steps and change your way of thinking.
Blushing basically does go with it. I’ve heard that the secret is to basically decide you *want* to blush. Then, it becomes less stressful when it happens, and it will happen less.
I will try that. Thanks for the advice. It’s nice to know that other people understand.
Yup I know 3 and 6 very well unfortuntely,and I still have to deal with people who think I am ‘mad in the head’ for getting bouts of depression or ‘a vain ***** who throws up after meals’(no,I do not throw up I fast). And it really is nice to see these illnesses being discussed openly and by all manner of people.
i’m not sure but i think i have number 5
I would add Alzheimer’s Disease to this list of misunderstood diseases. I’ve been watching my dad struggle with it over the last few years as it has been getting worse. While a bad short term memory is definitely part of the disease, it is only a secondary problem. The main problem is his inability to take in new information, digest it, and understand it.
For example, he was with me when I filled my car at the gas station. When I said that I had a third of a tank of gas and was filling it up, he just couldn’t rap his head around it, despite having been a driver since he was a teenager. I tried explain it as I would to a child who had never driven in a car but he just couldn’t get it. I watched his face for the “light” to go off but nothing, he just couldn’t comprehend the concept. That’s just one example of many.
I must say I slightly disagree with the writer sayin that the mania part of Bi-Polar isn’t enjoyable. I myself have Bi-Polar Disorder (though I hate the term “disorder” it just sounds so.. crippeling..) Now, am I saying that I have ever come up with anything quite as amazing as a famous artist or poet while in a mania, heck no. But I have told people many times over, that I personally do enjoy the mania part of Bi-Polar, I get a lot done in a little time, and feel quite unstoppable. The part that does suck, is after every “high” there is ALWAYS a “low”. And the lows suck. My highs never last as long as the lows. The highs last maybe a couple days, if lucky, though the lows have lasted for as long as a year and a half. Not that I am putting your list down, not at all, and I don’t speak for everyone with Bi-Polar, this is only my personal opinion.
Just trying to give a little persoanl insight.
My Mum, Aunt (my mother’s twin sister) and I all have Epilepsy – Which, by all accounts, is seemingly irrelevant, but my cousin (my mother’s twin sister’s eldest son) has Tourettes which the doctors believe was casued because my Aunt had a seizure when she was pregnant with him and basically prompted his birth.
It’s not a mental disorder, it’s a neurological disorder that’s somewhat akin to Epilepsy, complete with involuntary tics.
SAD is an acronym for Seasonal Anxiety Disorder. Google it if you dont believe me.
Nope, there’s no such thing.
SAD is an acronym for Seasonal Affective Disorder, Social Anxiety Disorder, Separation Anxiety Disorder, Schizoaffective Disorder, Singles Awareness Day, and I think something else that I can’t remember right now.
Did you google it? I could only see enteries for Seasonal Affective Disorder