The bystander effect is the somewhat controversial name given to a social psychological phenomenon in cases where individuals do not offer help in an emergency situation when other people are present. The probability of help has in the past been thought to be inversely proportional to the number of bystanders. In other words, the greater the number of bystanders, the less likely it is that any one of them will help. This list describes the prototype of the effect and cites nine particularly heinous examples.
First, the prototype of the bystander effect. Jesus tells a story to a lawyer, who, in all other ways, is blameless and upright in God’s eyes. He obeys the Ten Commandments, and loves his neighbor as himself. But he asks Jesus, “Who is my neighbor?”
Jesus then explains, with the following parable, that everyone is everyone’s neighbor, and that help should be offered to anyone in need of it, regardless of who or what that person is.
A Jew is going along the road, and is beset by bandits, who beat him severely, strip his clothes, and rob him. They leave him for dead. Later, a priest walks by. He sees the Jew, moves to the other side of the road, and walks by without helping. Later, a Levite goes by, sees him, and gives him a wide berth, going on without helping.
Later, a Samaritan (considered by the Jews to be outcasts) comes by, sees him, and immediately helps him, taking him to a nearby inn, caring for him, and paying the innkeeper.
“Which of these is the neighbor of the Jew who is beaten by robbers?” Jesus asked.
“The merciful one,” replied the lawyer.
“Go and do likewise.”
In the following nine examples, no one goes and does likewise.

From the 10th to the 11th of Janury, 1992, 12-year-old Shanda Sharer was abducted and tortured by four teenage girls, Laurie Tackett, Melinda Loveless (a propo), Hope Rippey, and Toni Lawrence. Tackett was more or less the leader of the four, and interested the others in the Goth lifestyle, punk rock, vampirism, witchcraft, Satanism, lesbianism, and such, and devised the plan for abducting Sharer and stabbing her to death, out of revenge for stealing Loveless’s girlfriend.
They abducted Sharer from her house just after midnight, pretending to take her to see their mutual friend, Amanda Heavrin, the girlfriend Loveless believed Sharer to have stolen. As soon as she was in the car, Loveless put a knife to her throat and interrogated her about Heavrin, until they arrived at “the Witch’s Castle,” a local run-down house where teenagers liked to hang out.
They took her inside, tied her up and discuss how they would kill her, at which point Sharer started crying. They claim to have been frightened by passing headlights, so they took her to a nearby landfill in thick woods, where Loveless beat her savagely with her fists. Lawrence and Rippey claim to have wanted out of the situation by this point, but did not dare try to run and call the police.
Loveless then tried to cut Sharer’s throat but the knife was too dull. Rippey then got out, had Loveless and Tackett hold her down, and strangled her with a rope. They thought she was dead and threw in the trunk, then went to Tackett’s home to wash up. They heard Sharer screaming, and Tackett went out with a kitchen knife and returned covered in blood. The screaming had stopped.
She then took out her runes, part of the Wicca lifestyle, and told the girls’ futures. They then Tackett and Loveless went joyriding from 2:30 AM, while Lawrence and Rippey stayed at her home. Sharer began struggling to get out of the trunk, so Tackett stopped, and beat her unconscious with a tire iron.
They returned a little before dawn, washed up again, and Tackett laughed as she told what she had done. They left and went to a neighborhood burning area, where leaves and limbs, etc., are disposed of, and showed Sharer, nearly dead in the trunk to the others. Lawrence claimed to have been so disgusted that she turned away. She still refused to rat out her friends. Tackett sprayed Sharer with Windex, probably to exacerbate her wounds, and taunted her, “You’re not looking so hot, now, are you?”
They then filled a 2-liter Pepsi bottle with gasoline at a nearby station, drove to a secluded field, laid Sharer, alive, in a blanket in the grass, doused and set her afire. Loveless returned a moment later and poured the rest of the gasoline on her, to be sure.
Lawrence was scared to death by this point, and finally called a friend of the same age, and told her what had happened. She refused to call the police, now out of fear as an accomplice. Loveless strangled became hysterical, sorry about what she had done, and called Amanda Heavrin to tell her. Heavrin did not believe them, until she and another friend saw the trunk of Tackett’s car with blood and Sharer’s socks.
None of them called the police. Sharer’s body as discovered by two hunters earlier that morning, the 11th, and reported. By 8:00 PM that night, the whole community knew, and Loveless finally confessed in a fit of hysteria to the police. Tackett, Loveless, and Rippey were sentenced to 60 years in prison, Lawrence 20 years. Lawrence was released on good behavior in 2000, Rippey in 2006.
Ilan Halimi was a French Jew who was kidnapped in Paris by Moroccan “barbarians,” as they like to be called, on Janury 21, 2006, and tortured for 24 days, finally dying on February 13. During this time, his kidnappers, at least 20 of them, beat him all over his body, especially his testicles, completely wrapped his head in duct tape, except for his mouth, so he could breathe and eat, stabbed him, burned his body and face with lighters and cigarettes, and broke his fingers in order to extract a ransom of 450,000 Euros from his family. They stripped him, they scratched him, they cut him with knives, and finally poured gasoline on him and set him afire.
During these three weeks, neighbors in the apartment block where his kidnappers had taken him (and where they lived) heard the commotion and came to watch. No one ever called the police. 27 people have so far been charged with joining in. 19 people have been convicted and given long prison sentences. One of the torturer’s fathers knew what was happening and did nothing to stop them. This man, Alcino Ribeiro, was sentenced to 8 months, but this sentence was suspended. He has served no time.
Those neighbors known only to have watched were not convicted, most not even indicted. Halimi was found handcuffed and bound with nylon rope, naked, to a tree about 40 yards inside a woodlot from a railway outside Paris, on February 13. More than 80% of his body had been burned with acid, as well as gasoline, to the point that he was difficult to recognize. He had severe contusions, blood blisters, and hematomas covering most of his body, to the point that he was more blue than flesh-colored, multiple broken bones, one ear and one big toe missing, and his testicles looked like “blackened oranges.”
Halimi died en route to a hospital.
Not just Topsy the Elephant, but a rather long series of animals, all of which had shown themselves to be a danger to humans. This included horses, lions, tigers, and bears. Edison was happy to oblige the state of NY in executing these “menaces to society,” by employing alternating current, but his ulterior motive was merely to show the world the danger of alternating current, invented by Nikola Tesla, his arch-rival. Edison’s direct current didn’t have the strength to electrocute an elephant, and he considered it safer.
So, on January 4, 1903, at Luna Park Zoo, Coney Island, Topsy was hooked up to Edison’s lighting plant, and electrocuted with 6,600 volts of AC. But this was after they fed her carrots that had been soaked in cyanide, just to be sure. They deemed Topsy to be a permanent threat to humans, as she had killed three handlers in three incidents, one of which involved a handler, who regularly whipped her, trying to feed her a lighted cigarette just to watch her suffer. She stomped on him.
1,500 people watched, and no one said a word in complaint. Edison filmed it, and the film is available on YouTube, if you feel like being outraged. The funny thing is that the ASPCA, which is supposed to protect the rights of animals, considered hanging to be cruel, as it would cause strangulation, not a snap of the neck, and yet had no problem with cyanide poisoning and electrocution.
Kevin Carter was a South African Photojournalist who, in March 1993, took the most infamous photograph, so far, of the brutality and disregard for human suffering in sub-Saharan Africa. The photo shows a female Sudanese toddler, alone and severely emaciated, attempting to crawl to an aid station for food. A vulture is standing on the ground behind her, waiting for her to die so it can eat her.
Carter claimed that he waited 20 minutes for the vulture to spread its wings, which he thought would make a better picture, and when it didn’t, he took the picture as is. For those 20 minutes, the toddler had to rest before resuming its trip. She whimpered and panted, and Carter did nothing to help her.
He took the picture, scared the vulture away, then left the girl to continue crawling on her own. No one knows what became of her, but it very likely that she starved to death. This account is denied by Joao Silva, a journalist friend of Carter, who stated that the child’s parents left for only a moment to take food from a plane. Either way, Carter claimed later that he just “didn’t want to get involved.” He killed himself the next year, after winning the Pulitzer for this photograph, by carbon monoxide poisoning, in his truck in Johannesburg.
This was not a single incident, but all the major crimes against the Indians were perpetrated for the same reason. European settlers and their descendants wanted more land. They thus drove the Indians westward, killing hundreds of thousands over the centuries, in order to make way for themselves. Unfortunately, no land is ever enough land. They wanted more, and the Indians continued being deprived of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.
The most astonishing aspect of this crime is that many notable Americans, especially Andrew Jackson, considered it righteous, as the Indians did not have the military strength to defend themselves, and thus deserved to lose their rights. Survival of the fittest, so to speak. Jackson is the man most directly responsible for the “Trail of Tears” relocation of the Cherokee. Later, the Navajo and Sioux, to name just two large tribes, were slaughtered in outright warfare.
Very few Europeans or their descendants, from 1585 with the Lost Colony, to the turn of the 20th Century, ever raised much of a fuss, if any at all, over this disgustingly awesome mistreatment of an entire race of humans.
If you’ve seen the film “Mississippi Burning” you’re familiar with the murders of James Chaney (black), Michael Schwerner, and Andrew Goodman (both white, Jewish). The White Knights of the KKK shot them dead and buried them in an earthen dam in 1964. The outrage in the northern half or so of the United States was immediate and fierce, as it should have been.
But there was no public outcry of any kind in the South. Very few black people, especially in Mississippi, had anything to say about the crime, as they didn’t dare incur the wrath of the white authorities. But the truly astonishing aspect is the absence of an outcry by many white people, if any, as they either agreed with the crime, or just didn’t care about the plight of blacks (and Jews, and anyone other than “WASPs”) in the South.
Racial hatred had become so rampant and impudent that the Judges who presided over the various criminals of this sort of case rarely convicted them, and then imposed the lightest sentences. The culprits of the three 1964 murders, 17 of them, were tried, and only 7 were convicted, not of murder, but of “civil rights violations,” because the prosecution didn’t believe they could be convicted, in Mississippi, of murder, which was probably true. The harshest sentences were 10 years each to two culprits. Others received 7 years, or 3 years. No one served more than 6.
The most infamous example of the bystander effect took place on March 13, 1964, in Kew Gardens, Queens, NY, when Catherine Genovese was entering her apartment building at about 3:15 AM, from work. She was stabbed twice in the back by Winston Moseley, a heavy machine operator, who later explained that he simply “wanted to kill a woman.”
Genovese screamed, “Oh, my God! He stabbed me! Help me!” and collapsed. Several neighbors in surrounding buildings reported hearing her voice, but decided it was probably just a drunken brawl or lovers’ spat. One man shouted from his window, “Let that girl alone!” which scared Moseley away.
This neighbor was sure to have seen Genovese crawling across the street, under a streetlight, to her apartment, but did nothing to help her. Witnesses saw Moseley drive away, then return about 10 minutes later. He had put on a wider-rimmed hat to hide his face, and searched for Genovese in the parking lot, the train station, and the apartment complex, for 10 minutes, before finding her prone in the external hallway at the rear of the building, where the door was locked. She could not get in.
Moseley proceeded to stab her to death, inflicting multiple wounds in her hands and forearms, indicating that she tried to fight him off. She finally succumbed and he raped her as she lay dying. He then stole around $50 from her and fled. The whole incident spanned 30 minutes.
A newspaper blasted it the next day as “Thirty-eight Who Saw Murder Didn’t Call Police,” but this is inaccurate. There were approximately 12 people who claimed to have seen the first attack. Many of them later stated that they “just didn’t want to get involved.” A simple phone call to the police would have sufficed, but everyone assumed someone else would do it.
The events that transpired on the night of October 27, 2009 inspired me to compile this list and I admit that it has caused me to reconsider the crime of the #1 entry.
The girl’s name has not been released to date, as she is 15 years old, but the accounts of the crime all agree, and it is beyond belief. For 2 and a half hours, while the High School Homecoming Dance was taking place inside the gymnasium, approximately 10 men gang-raped the 15-year-old student, beating her savagely the whole time, all the while 10 others stood around laughing and taking pictures with their cell phones.
The crowd eventually numbered more than 20, and no one called the police. No one went inside to tell a security guard or a policeman, several of which were on campus at the time. A little earlier, the assistant principal looked out his office window and saw 12 to 15 grown men sitting around near the scene of the crime, none of whom had identification badges, as is required, and none of whom appeared to be a teenager, and the assistant principal did not call the police, or alert any teachers or students. He returned to his job and ignored them.
The girl is still in critical condition at a hospital, having been found later by someone leaving the dance.
The most repugnant, globally violent disgrace of the reputation of humanity gave rise to the equally infamous use of the phrase “diffusion of responsibility,” as the Nazi officers tried at Nuremberg all claimed the same defense, “We were just following orders.”
They argued that if the Holocaust really was as bad as journalists were saying, then someone else must surely have known of it, and thus it was not necessarily their responsibility to report it to the authorities.
They also argued that the only authorities in Continental Europe at the time were German, and thus, they would only have killed themselves by attempting to inform the outside world, and would have accomplished nothing. This is not true. Most of the German population knew nothing of it, but had they, they could easily have banded together and demanded that the Holocaust be stopped. The Nazis would have been reluctant to exterminate their own “master race,” and by that point, the Allies would have heard news of it. So the Nazis wisely concealed the concentration and death camps from all but the small villages nearest to them.
The Holocaust achieves #1, however, because the populations of the villages near these camps, Dachau, Buchenwald, Bergen-Belsen, Sachsenhausen, Mauthausen, and Ravensbruck, to name a few, knew perfectly well of the atrocities and horror inside the camps. The camps were established near fairly large towns and cities, the inhabitants of which could not have ignored the stench coming from them. Allied soldiers all reported smelling camps before finding them, from as far as 20 miles if the wind blew right.
The Allies accused the German citizens of these towns of knowing full well what was happening to Jews and other “undesirables” and yet making no effort to save one life. These German populations were thus forced to clean up the emaciated corpses and bury them in mass graves, as punishment for their passivity.





























@El the erf (50):
that comment makes no sense. one of the biggest problems for believers is explaining why evil exists in a world created by a good god. see comment 45, where tons of people leaving a fricking church did not even stop to see if a woman sprawled face down on the pavement was even alive. yupp, looks like evidence of a loving god, and that religion religion in-and-of-itself makes us help others in need…………
and why would the victims be motivated to believe in god? a god who let such things happen to them? do you think they are all job or something?
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Google courses?
What people fail to realize, even most supposed christians, is that the explanation for the evil in the world and why nothing has been done about it is in the Bible. James 1:13 states ” “When under trial, let no one say: ‘I am being tried by God.’ For with evil things God cannot be tried nor does he himself try anyone.” That’s because the whole world is lying in the power of the wicked one..the Bible identifies him at 1 Corinthians 4:4 4 among whom the god of this system of things has blinded the minds of the unbelievers, that the illumination of the glorious good news about the Christ, who is the image of God, might not shine through” and 1 John 5:19 which states ” 19 We know we originate with God, but the whole world is lying in the [power of the] wicked one.” What most don’t know is that the entire reason for what’s going on lies in the book of Genesis that b rings out how Satan challenged God’s right to rule and have authority, he said man could rule themselves, and that is exactly the point that Satan is trying to prove today. Thats’ why people keep trying to form government after government without much success. A small part of the reason that it’s happening is that so in the future, when God destroys the wicked, no one can cry out that He never gave mankind the opportunity to try their form of government, one free from God and independent. But there’s also hope ” The upright are the ones that will reside in the earth, and the blameless are the ones that will be left over in it. As regards the wicked, they will be cut off from the very earth; and as for the treacherous, they will be torn away from it.” Proverbs 2:21, 22.
People always cry out and say “why doesn’t God do this for me, or that for me?” But they never turn around and do for God, he stated you can pray for anything and it will be given to you According to HIS will. But even now, people have a bad experience or two with religion, and then they just shoo it away. People will try to talk to them about it, and they don’t want to hear it. Let’s face it, to most of the world, the belief in God is a convenience. You don’t when things are good, and you turn to him when you’re in crisis. The bible also states that “unforeseen occurrences befall us all” so none of it’s fate, and God doesn’t save some and kill others, so there are so many false beliefs people have toward God and that is why so many are angry.
But in the case of these people, that was wickedness within themselves, they sat back and did nothing, so you see they had the power to help, but didn’t. Thats’ true evil.
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I'm saying that Polish people near Auschwitz knew what was happening in the camp and therefore to say that German citizens should have stopped it is to also suggest that the Polish citizens should have done it. Slovaks, Hungarians, Ukrainians, Latvians, Russians also etc etc. Millions of people in Europe had an idea of what was happening but still turned in Jews for their own gain, Anne Frank being an example. To single out German citizens, who may or may not have had sympathies with the Nazis (much like those in other countries occupied) is an attempt at shifting blame. In my opinion, it isn't just Germans who were guilty in 'ignoring' the Holocaust. I used Poland as an example because a lot of extermination camps were placed there and perhaps I should have worded it better, my apologies.
You are right to point out that Polish people effectively bore the brunt of Nazi aggression and were subjagated to horrible crimes and had little or no chance at stopping what was happening to people in their vicinity. But if people believe that it is better to do something and risk death than do nothing and risk the deaths of millions, then all Europeans are culpable in ignoring the Holocaust. Not merely German citizens, or Polish citizens, or the Allies, or the Slovak government who paid the Germans to take their Jews, or the Hungarians, Ukrainians, Russians, Latvians who were quite happy to allow the Jews to be taken, knowing full well what would happen to them.
Again, I apologise for singling out Poland.
You obviously observe the world from the Kingdom of Walt Disney… If you would take the time and research about that era and would have a bit of common sense, maybe, just maybe you would have refrained from such idiotic comments. If you think East Europeans just happily accepted it all an all overjoyed about it then you should remove those pink Chinese made plastic glasses you are looking at the world.
The topic itself is a bit more extensive then to be discussed in a comment. Get a history book Troll
Nice list.
This proves that people are violent when not tamed.
…and that the tamed won't help those hurt by the untamed.
Sad, sad list, and do you know what, I would also have been a bystander. It’s a nasty thought but unfortunately it’s true.
Good list flamehorse, no.2 is so shocking and disgusting more so that it occurred recently..can’t say that we are living in a civilized society if so many people are apathetic..
Great list
This is discusting.
It makes me question the famous quotes by Anne Frank, “… in spite of everything I still believe that people are basically good at heart.”
No. No they aren’t.
I agree, Annie Frank may have been inspiring but she was wrong on that one quote
people are good at heart, there are many stories of people willing to risk everything to help others. It is just that humans are also weak and it is easier smoother the flame of goodness than withstand the tide of evil.
When they say it takes one person to change the world. On a small scale this is what they mean. If one person had of done something a lot more might have stepped in to help.
This list is so, so sad but unfortunately this is what happens when people simly “don’t want to get involved”.
We could all learn from the samaritan.
Number 1 is disgusting. Nice list overall
Here is a perfect example of this bystander effect. It involves a hit-and-run incident in which a 78 year-old man was hit by a car and nobody does anything to help. Here is the video, most may consider it disturbing.
omg i cant believe people would do stuff like this. intresting list!
Of course the concentration camps would have smelled by the time the Allies reached them, without the Germans there what would have happened to those too weak and sick to force on the death march? They died… and without anyone there to bury them, what do you think happens?
That’s hardly compelling evidence that the residents of even the towns and villages adjacent to the camps themselves (let alone other German citizens) knew of the atrocities occuring within. Everyone knew that Jews were being persecuted, but it would have been suicide to attempt anything to try to prevent that. I think that you also under-estimate the German’s power during the majority of WWII and the efficiency of the Gestapo.
It was a good list, apart from the first two entries (#1 and #2)
There are stories about the villagers and such in those areas about having to dust the outside of their houses every day because of all the ash. They knew. None of us can say honestly that we wouldn’t be complacent. We don’t know what we’d do in those situations, but we know what we should.
It wasn’t only German citizens who ignored the Holocaust, everybody did, the Allies, Poles, puppet officials in Nazi occupied or Nazi-allied countries.
I think Martin Niemoeller sums up the attitude in his famous poem…
First they came for the communists, and I did not speak out—because I was not a communist;
Then they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out—because I was not a socialist;
Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out—because I was not a trade unionist;
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out—because I was not a Jew;
Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak out for me.
Wow, can't believe that nobody gives a ***** about the first holocaust which happened on american soil and was carried out by americans, im talking about the Natives…
I must know is it really that nobody cares or is it because they are happy to see them almost gone??
I agree that what the ‘settlers’ did to the natives of what is now the United States seems to have been pushed to the back of the psyche. Not enough is taught about the horrible things that were done to the natives. Part of this, I think, is because the people committing those acts are taught about in history classes as if they are heroes, for settling the new world, leaving England for religious freedom, and then breaking free from England. I think also that it is easier for someone from the US to say, “Why didn’t more Germans stand up against Hitler?” than to say “Why did our forefathers commit those atrocities against the natives?” Also, the education received in our schools on these subjects is severely lacking.
@jhhwild (9):
That video is just tragic. It’s appalling how many people just pointed and stared, yet did absolutely NOTHING.
In regards to #9 it really grates my nerves when people say “part of the Wicca lifestyle” to prove the aberrant behaviour is related. For one thing, it’s a religion. No more.. no less. For two, it’s a religion that’s central tenet is “An it HARM NONE”. It’s pretty obvious those girls were social deviants and utter miscreants who had NO religion at all. It’s annoying people make that ridiculous, ignorant association.
Worse though – 2 of those girls are already out of prison? What the heck kind of justice is that?
I have seen that case covered by various different documentary style shows. It is sickening what they did to that poor girl. I think their sentences were far too lenient.
Also, I hate when people paint Wicca in a bad light, simply because they are ignorant of what the religion is really about. It’s no better than blaming any other religion for someone committing a crime. And you are right about the main rule of Wicca being “do as ye wish, harm none.” It’s essentially the same as Do unto others as you would have done to you.
If I were you flamehorse, I would put the Gujarat riots at no.1.
Flamehorse, I always love your lists, this one is very very sad, number 2 because of how recent it is and number 6 because its a baby. I dont think i would have been a bystander in most of these crimes. Perhaps with the exception of number 7, 5. 4 and 1.
Flamehorse, I always love your lists, this one is very very sad, number 2 because of how recent it is and number 6 because its a baby. I dont think i would have been a bystander in most of these crimes. Perhaps with the exception of number 7, 5, 4 and 1.
Very interesting list, demonstrating perhaps one of the least acknowledged but most widespread and virulent traits of the human race.
Two quick issues – number 6 is not a case of the bystander effect as it involves only one man, whose actions were probably caused by PTSD and shock.
Secondly – the population of Germany during the Holocaust was collectively in the grip of Nazi fever. Exterminating the Jews was part of Hitler’s entire schtick, and I think his citizens were well aware of this. I know some people can quite happily and fashionably believe that history is all a matter of evil dictators rather than whole populations of evil people such as ourselves, but the phenomena in this case is probably one of complete moral recidivism.
Number two by the way is truly disgusting. There can be no punishment too harsh for the perpetrators. They have forfeited their humanity.
i can’t believe number 2 happened the other day and I had NO idea…. as a child advocate, number 6 makes me sick, i can’t even look at that picture. Excellent list, Hopefully people will read this and learn that even one small phone call can save a life!!!!
shocking, infuriating, depressing list
PS I think the Rwandan Genocide could be an example of it as well….. a lot of people believed that because it was in Africa, they didn’t need (or want) to get involved…. that or just a case of sever ignorance, which is just as bad.
I can’t believe they gave that man a Pulitzer for that photo. How could he just sit there for 20mins, waiting, while a small child struggled for her very life? That’s beyond callous. Obviously, he knew it and it haunted him.
This whole list is heartbreaking and, unfortunately, gives me all the more reason to be distrustful and cynical. :/
I think the picture in #6 is the saddest thing I have ever seen. To think that the photographer watched for 20 minutes to try for a better photo, then walked away without helping the poor starving child is repugnant. I was actually relieved to read that he killed himself, because it shows that he finally realized how heinous his lack of human decency actually was.
All of these scenarios are appalling. I don’t understand how someone could observe such senseless, brutal violence and not be outraged enough to render aid. Add to that the onlookers who actually joined in with the tormenters, and you see a grim picture of the human race. To me, compassion and mercy are some of the most important qualities in a civilized society. How they seem to be so completely lacking in so many people is beyond me. It makes me want to despair of any hope for the human race.
That said, I know that I can’t despair, I can’t give up, because the only hope of changing this mindset is for outraged people to speak up, to act against cruelty and to model good behavior towards our fellow humans. We need the good people to work against evil, or things will never change. If we can learn, as a race, to see every person as we see ourselves – important, fragile, and worthy of respect – then perhaps this sort of behavior will fade away. Maybe this is an implausible idea, but it’s all I have right now. We need to treat other people as we want to be treated. That’s the Golden Rule. Without it, what are we but savages? What’s the point of life without it?
I feel this was the worst one. This guy should of been condemed by his peers not honored.
It’s not that people don’t want to help. These days good people are always exploited. Take for example the incident at #2 (Richmond). Someone could be acting out a rape scene then when someone does come to help, that someone is instead kidnapped or even worse raped. So you can’t really blame the bystanders for not helping.
Yes. You can.
Strength in numbers: once one person fights back, everyone else will join in, and a few unarmed people can't rape 10x more people who are intent on stopping them.
If I am ever in a situation where someone else is in danger, I will help them no matter what.
or you could just call the *****ing police!?? Jesus. People are stupid.
Thank you, Drew. Why don’t people just call the f***ing police??
wow, i just lost a bit of faith in mankind.
I cant think of two recent cases, firstly the “dont taze me bro” incident as well as the girl who was beaten by 8 teenagers.
We are sick.
Nuts the size of “blackened Oranges”…. hes got some gigantic balls
My own experience of the bystander effect happened just a few weeks ago. I had to go to a meeting and was walking along a street I am fairly familiar with. On the opposite side from me I saw about 3 men punching and kicking another man. This happened at about 11.30 in the morning so there were plenty of people around. Some people at a nearby bus stop were watching and other people were just passing by, trying not to make eye contact.
I was going to go into a nearby shop and ask them to call the gardai but thankfully 2 security guards from a parking complex ran to help him. Having said that, the attack had already started when I got there and they must have been watching for a minute or two before they went to help.
Oh my goodness. The one about Ilan Halimi was umm…well it was terrifying. I am not quite understanding Flamehorse why they did it? Why did they kidnap him and do that? What is wrong with this world? I have been a potential bystander twice. The first time I ran and tried to help a choking victim, he lived. The second time I called the cops. I would not be able to live with myself if I didn’t risk or not risk my life to help someone in danger. Also, we all know about this one but the case of Sylvia Likens. Another wtf bystander moment.
I have but one question… What punishment would you prescribe for such people if, say, that girl in #2 would have been YOUR daughter,eh??
Okay, little discrepancy in number 9: “… went out to the runes, part of the Wicca lifestyle…” No. Being a witch and being Wicca are two completely different things.
@Q? (27): You do realize that being a “Wiccan” requires a belief that magic can be manipulated. I don’t know any Wiccans personally, but I have read some Wiccan texts and I have seen the words witch and witchcraft mentioned.
Eating meat doesn't make you a butcher. The Wiccas are more aware of things you and I would call witchcraft. That doesn't mean they're witches.
The word witch has so many connotations, mostly negative. The term witch in its original intent isn’t offensive; it would only imply that the person practices Wicca. Sort of like a Jew practices Judaism. There is just so much misunderstanding and ignorance of the Wicca religion that the word is often used improperly. Perhaps some Wiccan groups don’t approve of the use of the word witch because of the negative connotations involved.
number 2 happened on my birthday and i remember reading about it in the paper.
absolutely disgusting. in this day and age too.
You try stoppin’ these people…and they inflict you with an injury on one of those vital organs that is gonna stay with you all life long. Yeah…you become a local hero overnite,mebbe even your pic comes in the newsdaily the morn after, but what the hell. You aren’t gonna enjoy your 15 minutes of fame for even that long man,bcoz you know your life has been permanently punctured by one incident you could have never cared for. I hope i am able to say what i mean to say,duh!
YOU GO AND CALL THE POLICE. *****. WHY ARE PEOPLE SO *****ING STUPID!?!? You're one of those people that stands by like a little ***** and watches…..Youre just as bad as the murderers and rapists. *****ing coward. I know for a FACT I would help. Whether that be not getting involved and instead calling the police, or getting involved and kicking some *****in ass – depending on the situation. Just becasue you cant help directly, it doesnt mean you cant alert the people who can. Im truly disgusted by the amount of people posting here saying things like what youre saying. You should be ashamed of yourself *****ing coward.
If you’re interested in the subject, check out the movie “An American Crime”.
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0802948/
Hope it's not as brutal as Jack Ketchum's "The Girl Next Door".
this is what makes humans animals…
shameful
@El the erf (30): i don’t think anyone is saying to jump in and save the day, but to just make a simple phone call….. how many people would have been saved if someone called 911 or the equivalent
fcvaduz, I hope you are joking. The Poles? Holocaust destroyed around 2 millions of Poles and those outside the fences were ‘kinda’ busy being repressed, shot and buried in ditches all over. Besides Polish resistance did inform the Allies of what was going on. I suspect you might also support the ‘Polish death camps’ nonsense? After Semtember 28th 1939 there was no ‘Poland’, only emmigration and underground state organisations.
I’m not making the Poles saints, though. As a Pole myself, I’ll tell you first they can be murderous, corrupted, twisted and depraved and in a critical situation they may turn tail, betray or kill.
Just like any other nation on Earth.
…and yet there are films of Jews being unloaded from trucks and herded by Polish militia into deeply dug trenches, where Totenkopfverbanded SS shot them by the dozens… then the next batch of jews were unloaded, and were made to stand on the bodies, then were also shot… and so it went.
The townspeople, far from being "busy being repressed", were standing around watching, some with picnic blankets out and making a day of it. After all, the militia men were their neighbours or family.
The creepiest part? The Jews being shot were also their neighbours.
Google it. One of the worst films has a dog run past the camera after it was cared by the first volley of rifle fire, and a smiling SS troop caught it and handed it back to the 6 year old boy who owned it, smiling pleasantly, as bodies fell behind them.
It is not the bystander effect if the person is involved in the group which perpetrates the crime. As such most of these falls away… horrendous yes. Bystander effect… no. This list should be renamed.
Also, putting down a dangerous animal is not something that any sane person should want to stop, so I don’t see what that entry is even doing there. The method might not have been the best possible, but it was what was available and believed in at the time… nobody had a reason to interfere, or even to want to interfere.
oh there was a bystander case in hong kong
a guy who suffered from heart attack was lying in front of a hospital and no one, not even the doctors or anyone in the hospital did anything to help the person. he later died…
it’s in chinese though…
shocking, infuriating and depressing list.
what’s really horrifying about 8 & 9 is that they were still alive in such terrible condition when they were found right after what they’ve gone through
oops sorry about my previous comment it was only number 8
tats a sad list but v good 9.8.2 are heart breaking
How can they bloody hell give a pulitzer to a man who is claiming that ‘he waited for 20 mins. to take that photograph’? Where was the conscience of the selecting jury? Carter shoulda bin clamped in irons and left to fend for himself in the desert for a week or two,then a recording of his struggle should have been made and shown to him..that would hav been a lesson..jolly good that he committed suicide
This list made me outraged and overwhelmed with helplessness. I can’t understand how a human being can commit such a terrible act – it’s absolutely appauling.
I’ve been the first to call emergency services or run to a stranger’s aid in the past because I can’t help but put myself in that persons shoes. Imagine how it would feel to be left for dead in a crowded environment as bystanders watch seemingly nonchalant.
Imagine thinking about your loved ones and desparately wishing you would see them again. Imagine coming to terms with that. How can the committer not consider another persons well being?! Lucky i’m about to hit the gym because i’m now primed with adrenalin and rage.
Nobody reads comments this late in the game but by way of explanation as to why the murderers of the civil rights workers were convicted on a civil rights destruction statute was because in the u.s.of a murder is a state charge. There was almost no investigation into the murder by the local authorities as they were a bunch of hicks. All the headway was made when Lyndon Johnson (a southerner himself) ordered reputed cross dressing head of the Federal Bureau of Investigation to send agents to get to the bottom of this. The civil rights charge was the only federal statute the feds had to try and convict on and that law had only recently happened. This case further shows how much work the US had (has) in race relations post reconstruction.
I once saw a motionless woman lying head-down on the ground, yet no one came to her aid despite the crowded area. Sadly, the area was crowded because mass has just finish at a nearby church. She practically lay in front of it.
10 years was the maximum time allowed for imprisonment in the denying a persons civil rights law. That’s partly why sentences were so short.
@stepha22 (33): One ‘simple’ phone call you say,ha! Maybe you haven’t listened to what Kevin Cosgrove had to say in the list of top 10 eerie recordings.
Cordell Hull should be on this list for not granting asylum to Jewish refugees escaping from the Nazi. In his pursuit not to involve the US in the ongoing world war during that time, he chose to ignore the suffering of others.
Whether this list has the right name or not is irrelevant. Brilliant list. Makes you think. Saw pic of #6 stuck on a friend’s fridge years ago and I’ve never been able to get it out of my mind. Shocking.
And then people say ‘God doesn’t exist’. Go tell this to those who are the victims of such outrages. (I don’t wanna turn this into those type of debates,but still)
dont you mean "god does exist" because if something like this happened to me, and someone said to me afterwards "it was gods will" i'd puch them in the face
there was a horror film made about this phenomenon, the gathering w/christina ricci:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0294594/
it all comes down to some combination of fear of becoming a target yourself and indifference, depending on the “bystanders” constitution (or degree of depravity themselves), and for the participants i guess you can add liberal dashes of “group mentality” to the above cocktail.
and to tenebrae #13, first off you are close to correct about wiccans, 2 of their central beliefs are that all actions must be done “and thus[ly] harming none” and that all actions and mental/magickal energies sent out into the world will return to the sender at 3 times the power, so if you hurt people expect pain coming your way (like karma to the 3rd power).
but your quote “It’s pretty obvious those girls were social deviants and utter miscreants who had NO religion at all.” is thoroughly offensive and retarded! so, you think that actions like this are a calling card of atheists?
news flash: having any religion or no religion at all it not the thing that separates the sociopaths from those who are kind. not to mention that your ugly implication here also contradict your own other thoughts, if their religion was wiccan -or any other form of ritual magic- they weren’t “suffering” from “NO religion”. or did you just mean “NO religion like MINE“?
get a clue, you can be good without religion and even good without god….. and deeply religious people can be evil (see the salem wicth trials, the spanish inquisition, “manifest destiny” in the americas, the crusades, religiously identified terroism, etc.)
I am thisclose to deleting this site – what is going on with this Christian creep? This would have been a perfectly valid and interesting list without the Bible prologue, and this stuff is starting to show up in a LOT of lists.
dude, it's a list about the bystander effect. The good Samaritan is a well known story and example of this. If you don't want to read it, don't click on the link.
The first list to really make me feel sick. It’s well written as usual, but I just couldn’t finish reading it. So much suffering over stupid matters… And yet even in these comments we see the same old discussions which have caused or contributed to that suffering. We can travel in space and dive to the depths of the ocean, but we still can’t reach our ‘neighbor’.
This was not well written at all. There were quite a few grammatical errors.
Humanity has a long way to go, as we see in the everyday happenings around the world. Truly, I am surprised we’ve gotten this far sometimes. But, for the many with compassion for fellow mankind the road is long indeed.
This reminds me of an incident that happened in my street a few months back. It was very early in the morning, I’d say about 2AM, when the sound of a screaming girl was heard outside on the street. My parents woke up to see what the fuss was about; a young girl was being pursued by a drunk man. She was screaming ‘Help me! Help me!’ It was obvious no one else on our large street was going to help; half of the residents are elderly people, and the other half are the type of apathetic civilians all too common today. So my mother phoned the police whilst my father went across to the green where the man had pushed the girl down onto the grass. Somehow my father, with the help of just one other man from across the street who came out to help, managed to get the girl inside our house, and the man stood at the bottom of our drive waiting for her to come out again. She stayed with us, visibly shaken, until the police came to take her to the station to make a statement. In that time, the man had run off, nowhere to be seen. To this day, I dread to think what would have happened to that vulnerable girl if my parents and our neighbour hadn’t acted as they did.
Sometimes it’s just best to bite the bullet and take action.
Sad list. Ashamed to be a human-being.
@El the erf (47): ok, so maybe it won’t do anything…. but firmly believe that something is better then nothing….. maybe i’m naive, but i do believe it
Very sad list, FlameHorse, however good it was to bring to light.
Even still it just proves to me that humans are more evil than good. Too many stories of this type then those that save.