40 Quotes of Oscar Wilde
- Published October 8, 2007 - 40 Comments
There is no doubt that Oscar Wilde was one of the most witty men to come from the British Isles and probably the world. It is virtually impossible to find anything he wrote which did not show at least a glimmer of his genius. This is a selection of 40 of his greatest quotations.
Quotations 1 – 10
1. A little sincerity is a dangerous thing, and a great deal of it is absolutely fatal.
2. A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her.
3. Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.
4. America is the only country that went from barbarism to decadence without civilization in between.
5. Anyone who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination.
6. Arguments are to be avoided; they are always vulgar and often convincing.
7. Biography lends to death a new terror.
8. Fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we have to alter it every six months.
9. I am not young enough to know everything.
10. I think that God in creating Man somewhat overestimated his ability.
Quotations 11 – 20
11. I was working on the proof of one of my poems all the morning, and took out a comma. In the afternoon I put it back again. [Note: remember Top 10 tips for great writing?
12. Illusion is the first of all pleasures.
13. It is a very sad thing that nowadays there is so little useless information.
14. Most modern calendars mar the sweet simplicity of our lives by reminding us that each day that passes is the anniversary of some perfectly uninteresting event.
15. One should always play fairly when one has the winning cards.
16. Patriotism is the virtue of the vicious.
17. Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.
18. The only thing to do with good advice is pass it on. It is never any use to oneself.
19. The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about.
20. The true mystery of the world is the visible, not the invisible.
Quotations 21 – 30
21. To disagree with three-fourths of the British public is one of the first requisites of sanity.
22. Whenever people agree with me I always feel I must be wrong.
23. The only thing that sustains one through life is the consciousness of the immense inferiority of everybody else, and this is a feeling that I have always cultivated.
24. I don’t play accurately-any one can play accurately- but I play with wonderful expression. As far as the piano is concerned, sentiment is my forte. I keep science for Life.
25. When the gods wish to punish us, they answer our prayers.
26. Work is the curse of the drinking classes.
27. My own business always bores me to death; I prefer other people’s.
28. I can resist anything but temptation.
29. Life is far too important a thing ever to talk seriously about.
30. Experience is the name everyone gives to their mistakes.
Quotations 31 – 40
31. Scandal is gossip made tedious by morality.
32. We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.
33. What is a cynic? A man who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing.
34. Vile deeds like poison weeds bloom well in prison air, it is only what is good in man, that wastes and withers there.
35. We have really everything in common with America nowadays except, of course, language.
36. The public is wonderfully tolerant. It forgives everything except genius.
37. The truth is rarely pure and never simple.
38. Thirty-five is a very attractive age. London society is full of women of the very highest birth who have, of their own free choice, remained thirty-five for years.
39. I like persons better than principles, and I like persons with no principles better than anything else in the world.
40. I love acting. It is so much more real than life.
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October 8th, 2007 at 7:42 am
Great quotes. 32 is definitely me.
October 8th, 2007 at 7:48 am
wonderful list! love Wilde.
October 8th, 2007 at 7:49 am
Nice to see support for a fellow Irishman! I’ve always enjoyed Wildes works and I think you’ve picked some great quotes that really show off his genius.
October 8th, 2007 at 8:03 am
Sean the pryo: heh – that is one of my favorite quotes of Wilde. I tend to alternate between the stars and the road!
Cyn: Thanks – he is one of my favorite writers – his short stories are breathtaking.
Anthony: I have Irish in me too – I couldn’t leave Oscar off the site!
October 8th, 2007 at 9:29 am
It’s posts like this that just make me come back for more.
October 8th, 2007 at 9:40 am
October 8th, 2007 at 9:52 am
JT: Rendered speechless in the light of Wilde’s brilliance?
October 8th, 2007 at 9:53 am
Che: that is great! I am going to try to dig up some more on the ’90’s – it was a great time and will be an excellent source of more lists I think. I am just trying to think of some way to get Aubrey Beardsley in to one of these lists.
October 8th, 2007 at 10:35 am
I think a book of Oscar Wilde quotes would be 1000+ pages, haha. I actually have a giant paperback book of all his works. I love picking it up and reading a poem or two from time to time.
October 8th, 2007 at 10:35 am
Hmmmm my comment didnt post. Shame, it was actually a really good one too.
October 8th, 2007 at 2:50 pm
Beautiful =)
I think my favorite is 36.
October 8th, 2007 at 3:33 pm
Oh, I was so excited to see this list! Sad thing is I think I have read them all before. I LOVE Wilde, I think we could have been great friends if we had existed at the same time. =P
October 8th, 2007 at 5:39 pm
Sweet. Whenever I want a snarky quote, I go to Wilde and also Ambrose Bierce, author of the Devil’s Dictionary.
Quite fun.
October 9th, 2007 at 12:39 pm
Great list, I mean, the guy was a genius, extremely talented and funny, but comments like “I LOVE Wilde, I think we could have been great friends if we had existed at the same time. =P” What!?
Has everybody just forgotten about his rampant paedophilia? I understand this list’s a celebration of his comic sharpness, but how did nobody mention he was arrested, spent time in prison and eventually went into hiding over screwing young boys? (JF – He’s dead, he can’t sue you for this..Not to mention it’s true)
Why not read The Secret Life of Oscar Wilde by Neil McKenna..
October 9th, 2007 at 12:43 pm
In todays society he would be branded a paedophile, forced to sign the sex offenders register and no doubt live out his life, albeit a clever one, in an embarrassed recluse, probably on a farm with a couple of scared-looking barnyard animals.
Very funny bloke though..
October 10th, 2007 at 7:43 pm
He also said that, “The mystery of love is greater than the mystery of death.”
December 9th, 2007 at 6:37 am
Oscar Wilde was Irish. He didnt “come out of the British Isles”
December 9th, 2007 at 6:46 am
Bojan: last time I looked the Republic of Ireland was still a part of the islands comprising the British Isles
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/British_isles
December 30th, 2007 at 4:48 pm
“Nice to see support for a fellow Irishman! I’ve always enjoyed Wildes works and I think you’ve picked some great quotes that really show off his genius.”
I hate it when people bring attention to the fact that they have Irish ancestry, and that way they say (or type it) in a way that makes them feel self-satisfied and better than other people.
February 12th, 2008 at 11:09 am
this is a great list. i love using oscar wilde’s quotes in my essays – there’s always something for every theme. shame my favourite one’s not on here, though. “a man’s face is his autobiography. a woman’s face is her work of fiction.”
March 19th, 2008 at 7:38 pm
You know, I was reading a book of his plays today, and I adore his dry wit… And you know, I was horrified (well, maybe not, but rather surprised) to find out that a majority of my friends were not only unfamiliar with his work, but that they’d never even heard of him! Terrible, absolutely terrible.
May 20th, 2008 at 4:08 pm
Oscar Wilde ranked 3rd on my list of the coolest people ever.
May 23rd, 2008 at 6:58 pm
RE: #36
I did not know Neil Peart plagerized Oscar Wilde?
May 23rd, 2008 at 6:59 pm
er…#32
June 5th, 2008 at 5:05 am
I would like to know which of these he said “as” himself, and which he put into the mouths of his characters. A quotation put into the mouth of a character doesn’t necessarily reflect the opinions of the author. In one play, one character says something like “Australia must be such a pretty country with all those kangaroos flying around”. Wilde himself didn’t believe that.
Even saying ‘ “as” himself’ is problematic. How much of Oscar Wilde’s life and writing was actually “himself”, and how much was a carefully calculated pose? The same might be said about Eminem and Marilyn Manson, for eg.
I have set 5 of his poems to music. Most of his poems are pretentious, drawing on his background as a prize-winning classics scholar.
June 24th, 2008 at 12:15 am
I love how half the humour in these Oscar Wilde quotes is implied by what he isn’t saying. Like,
“One should always play fairly when one has the winning cards.”
It’s as if he’s (or his character) is saying one should be magnanimous when in power but not necessarily when in a losing position. Like it’s ok to be underhanded
September 14th, 2008 at 5:58 pm
Brilliant! Going through a breakup currently and your site has helped me take a break and forget my loss enough to keep my sanity;)
October 4th, 2008 at 8:03 am
this year in my school we’re doing “The Importance of Being Earnest.” It’s so much fun.
“all women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man ever does. That is his.”
November 26th, 2008 at 11:39 pm
Given the scandal(s) of Oscar’s life, I was surprised to learn that he had a less respectable brother: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Willie_Wilde
December 16th, 2008 at 1:12 pm
I love number 22
February 19th, 2009 at 3:27 pm
Wilde was his own genius. May I pick up on jfrater? Use Wikipedia lightlty my friend for it is generic, the republic of Ireland is exactly that a ‘republic’ where the great and late Wilde was born. Peace X
February 20th, 2009 at 8:23 am
He was IRISH, and very proud of it. he didnt reguard him self as british in any way!
April 7th, 2009 at 3:17 pm
Sorry to be pedantic Lolly – but I believe the Irish Republic followed the Irish Free State created in the 1920’s. Long after Wilde was born in Dublin – at the time, part of the United Kingdom of Great Britain. But ‘for all that’ (to misquote Robbie Burns) what really matters, is that for all his faults and foibles he left us a body of work that still enriches our lives to this day. Perhaps his detractors should consider judging his work and not the man.
April 16th, 2009 at 12:53 am
I feel perfectly dreadful saying this, but Fun Fact, everyone: Oscar Wilde was human (I know it’s hard to believe; I originally thought he might have been some previously undiscovered species of owl). We can laud his genius all we please, but it’s well to remember that most of his wit was calculated. He would sit and prepare monologues and repartees hours or days before an event, or would rework lines in plays to death to give them just the right “zing.” Proof of such preparation is in the words of Willie Wilde: elder brother of Oscar, alcoholic, and alleged home to a tapeworm (no lie).
Another Fun Fact: Oscar Wilde was notoriously awful at math. According to him, 2 plus 2 COULD equal five (if he wanted it to), and there are “a lot” of minutes in an hour. How cute.
I really do love His Majesty, don’t mistake my meaning… but I feel a cur because I love him for being the awkward, tubby, unbathed, crooked-tooth’d, wonderfully dysfunctional, beautifully broken amalgam of identity crises that he was.
April 16th, 2009 at 1:03 am
PS: @ all users who have dubbed His Majesty the Queen a paedophile: As a member of Oscar-Dear’s “preferred gender and age-range,” I can say with certainty that, circumstances allowing and time travel possible, I would have absolutely zero qualms with receiving the romantic attentions of the chap in question. I would not feel “victimized” by a “paedophile.”
Thank you for reading. Now I shall once again slip back into the woodwork, not to return until I need to defend him/verbally adore him again.
April 27th, 2009 at 8:52 am
#34 blew me away… what a wonderful, insightful quote.
April 30th, 2009 at 8:03 pm
Is there a quote from Wilde criticizing the English for taking away the Irish language from the Irish and marveling at the way that the Irish took the English language to places it would never have gone without their brilliance? I one time heard Malachi McCourt spit out a great quote on this subject and I think it was Wilde whom he quoted. Does anybody know what I’m talking about
June 22nd, 2009 at 11:59 am
My favourite is “there are only two tragedies in life: one is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it.”
September 17th, 2009 at 8:40 pm
Isn’t he the one who said : “To quit smoking is a very easy thing : I quit several times everyday.”?
November 20th, 2009 at 11:49 am
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