Smooth, suave, sexy and self-assured. Are you ready for a very exciting and rewarding social life as a sugardaddy? Here are our tips on how to be a desirable sugardaddy – the sugardaddy women love and adore:
Women look up to sugardaddies for their social stature and financial stability. A sugardaddy has to be the best – or at least one of the best – in whatever industry or field he may be in. You have to be the confident top dog at the reins, the alpha male, the boss. You have to show you’re in charge.
You have to have sufficient means as well. As a sugardaddy, you are expected to spend, not just for yourself but especially for your lady friend. If you’re liquid and capable money-wise, you’re on the right track. Remember: you don’t just decide to become a sugardaddy, you have to be able to afford it.
Women love a sharp-dressed man and if you’re about to become a beautiful woman’s sugardaddy, you better look good beside her. Good taste in clothing can be cultivated and since you want to be your own brand, don’t be afraid to find a style all your own. If you need good advice, hire a personal stylist. He will be able to guide you in choosing the right cut, color and trend that will bring out your looks. If you want to create an extra big splash, learn to wear white tie properly with this list – then invite your lady to a fancy white tie event. But above all, remember, you don’t have to wear a suit to look sharp – you can dress casually and still look a million bucks.
Becoming a sugardaddy does not necessarily require you to have a doctorate degree or even a Master’s degree, although that surely can’t hurt. However, knowing more than just sports stats and stock market indicators will make you a very entertaining and interesting man.
Find a subject or interest that you feel you can excel in and then learn and experience as much as you can about it. Educate yourself with subjects that have a wide appeal, such as art, architecture, politics, finance, sports, food, wine, business, entertainment, media and world affairs. Being a well-read man makes your lady friend the envy of other women. And that makes you – her sugardaddy – highly desirable and irresistible. You can find some tips to help you in this department on the Top 10 Ways To Seem Smarter Than You Are.
The best sugardaddies in the planet are those who are well-spoken – smart, articulate and witty. And they don’t even have to try too hard. Ladies like men who know how to carry a good, enticing conversation should the situation call for it.
If you want to be a highly sought-after sugardaddy, learn how to improve your conversation skills. Apply corrective measures on any speech defects you might have. A lisp, for example, can seem adorable to a few but in general, it can distract from the substance of your conversation.
An accent, on the other hand, is something you have to be careful about nurturing. Does it make you attractive or does it just make you sound funny? Change your accent only if: a) you’re uncomfortable with it, b) you haven’t been getting rave reviews about it and c) it doesn’t make you a hit with the ladies.
Even the world’s best-known sugardaddies did not become who they are overnight. If you wish to cultivate an exciting and interesting persona, learn the ways of the mysterious yet enchanting gentleman. Roughnecks, dirty-mouths, insecure losers and the uncouth do not belong in your club. You’re a cut above the rest, so show it. You might find the Top 10 Lost Rules of Etiquette helpful.
Not only should you look good with designer clothes on, you should also look good without them. Learn to live a healthy life. Find an exercise regimen that will enhance your body shape, trim away excess fat and keep yourself fit and strong. The key here is longevity – the healthier you are, the better, more capable sugardaddy you will be.
Your choice of car can make a huge difference between being sought after and avoided. No one is going to want to be taken out to the latest film premiere in a Skoda. You need to get yourself an amazing car. If it is too far outside of your budget to buy one, hire a car (but be sure to hide the rental papers and any signs in the car). If you are going for the sporty look, get a Lamborghini – if you are going to suave and sophisticated, you can’t go wrong with a Bentley.
Once you have managed to pull off all of the above tips, you will finally have a chance of taking your lady out for a meal. All of the work you put in to making yourself a man in demand will go down the gurgler if you scoff your food or behave like a pig at the table. Therefore, it is imperative that you brush up on your table manners. Fortunately for you, we have a list that can help: The Top 10 Rules For Fine Dining. Oh – and it goes without saying that you should not be going to McDonald’s for your date – find an upmarket restaurant.
hmmm… i think this list could be just fiilthy rich and there you have it all done
As shallow as a kiddie pool!
I also think the picture for #5 maybe ironic as sir ian mkellan is an outspoken homo*****ual not a sugardaddy in the least
Note the humor tag people
You missed the golden rule of being a sugar daddy:
- Have a mysterious background (or pretend to have one). Act like your profession is extremely dangerous, secret and worldwide important! Act like you did something in your past that changed lives but never speak about it and when you hint about the subject stare into the horizont with semi-closed eyes. Girls love intrigue and mystery… thats why they watch soaps!
agh it is toooo much work to become a sugardaddy! ill just go out and find a sugarmama that sounds like a better idea!
Travis: good idea – you can even use the Top 10 Ways To Fly Under the Radar to help build up your secret persona!
Oh – forgot to say that item one on the list mentioned in my last comment is the one you want.
My inner feminist is weeping….. the rest of me is loling :p
Cazzazz: sometimes you just gotta let go of that inner feminist
Hef-Trumped guns on the list, g. Reckon I could pull it off but gave up bankrobbing yo.
Oh- what do you all think of the new “popular” and “controversial” tabs on the front page? I will be adding lists to both categories over the next few days and sorting out images for them.
boyfriends can do this.. right guys??
@ jfrater : I think the popular and controversial tabs are an excellent idea! there are now so many lists that its good to group them up into categories, subjects and popularity!
In short, be Don Draper.
Haha, u must be a daddy to become a sugar dad.. Nice list
Love this list- hilarious… but kind of true. A girl’s gotta love an educated and well-mannered gentleman who dresses well… of course, I’m pretty sure those only exist in movies. Stupid Disney, getting my hopes up.
Also, the new tabs on the front page are a great idea. If I could suggest another one (though I think it would require regular upkeep/more work, so maybe not a feasible idea): a tab for lists that still have active conversations going on in the comments. Some lists have commenting that goes on for weeks, if not longer, others die out in a couple days. It’d be nice if there was one place to stop and check to see which lists I should still be keeping track of.
Location counts too. I’m currently working in Lagos, Nigeria, where it seems any malodorous expatriate git can accomplish this.
It seems this this list is pretty interesting in the sense of what may work in upper class relationships. in todays economy much of this type of behavior would be hard to come by. Everyone trying to just get by.
Hmm tips on how to attract a sugarmama should be next
Great list- Amusing read, but also some of these tips are appropriate for those who don’t aspire to be a “sugar daddy”, just an active dater.
2. Moe786–Not shallow for the reason I’ve stated above.
12. jfrater–Checked out the new tabs. What defines a list to the new categories? For popular, I suspect # of times viewed. Controversial–Comment count doesn’t seem to be the criteria, so is it key words in the title of list? My opinion of the new tabs-7/10 with a higher rating when I understand better the sorting process.
17. msulli222–I agree with your suggestion of an “active” tab being added to homepage. It would be a nice way to keep track of the more heated debates, especially after older ones drop from homepage due to chronological progression. “Out of sight, out of mind” may be cliche’ but it is accurate.
And thanks for the chuckles, Alex Padron.
I cannot do any of these things
My life as a Sugardaddy has failed before it even started
xD
Good list
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Nice read, but not very realistic. I’ll just hire a prostitute instead of going throughout this ordeal
Gotta buy a tiger!
This was hilarious, it’s likes something from Cracked.com
Funny list! However, I couldn’t see myself with a guy like that. Too much money would make me nuts. I like it simple.
p.s. I like the new tabs as well.
btw–Photo support for the list was pretty accurate with an exception to item 7-Dress Sharply.
That’s Sharp dressing? I thought the photo was the anti-example.
Be rich is only #8? That’s a joke right? Be rich s/be #1-#8. It’s the ONLY thing you need. Remember, you said “sugardaddy” not “ladies man.” Ladies man might require a more well rounded guy, but not sugardaddy.
Hmmm…. tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, x, tick!!! Wooohoo, i just need someone to donate me a lamborghini and i’ll be a sugardaddy =P
nice list.
19- I remember reading some article that had all these chicks whining cause their sugar daddies couldn’t get them bottle serivce anymore, or buy them diamonds, or take them on trips. It was very, very hard on them, the poor dears.
How to be a Sugar Mama: Have a *LOT* of money. Done.
This was a great, light-hearted list! Also, I think *most* women want a well-educated, well-groomed, well-spoken man. The money and sweet car are just perks! Hell, I think most women would want to be well-educated, well-groomed and well-spoken. But that’s probably all just my opinion.
PS. Love the tab ideas!
20 Clantargh
I think the next list should be ‘how to be a hot and sought-after sugarmama’
Combine all of these into one and it reminds me of me.
This is cheapening and degrading of women, but it is oh so true.
Yes, I know most hot women are looking for a gay X-Man type (pic 5) to fulfill all of their shopping needs. Ian McKellen might just fit the bill, provided he has his supply of Cialis and Flomax filled on a regular basis and ah, oh yeah, IF HE LIKED WOMEN.
If anybody wants to see a real sugar daddy, just watch Bill Paxton in True Lies. Sorry guys, the game’s up when Jamie Lee Curtis meets you at your ‘safe house’ trailer and you’re serving her Boones in a plastic goblet and she notices your stray subscription cards to S***** and Cheri.
A good Christian womasn with an outgoing personality and loving heart is all I would need
@Cybogen
Get a Pagan one, the ***** is better.
@Gauldar – how would you know?
This list should be titled… How to attract stupid, shallow, women.
39. J
with big boobs
#2 You would need to go pre 1931 to get a real W O Bentley automobile as they were taken over by Rolls-Royce…then horrors were bought up by Volkswagon!! Did enjoy my old Mark VI though!!
40 TEX
big FAKE boobs
1 and 4 are the same thing.
Besides, this list pretty much misses the point entirely of what a sugardaddy (is that really a solid compound?) is. A sugardaddy is a guy with money who, because of his money, gets women he otherwise would not get. That’s it. A woman who is giving it to a guy because he’s got money (see “*****”) doesn’t care about how he looks or what kind of manners he has or how he speaks anymore than she cares about how good he is in bed (surprised you didn’t have that one on the list, for crying out loud).
Ahhh, all you need is a ***** load of money and spend it on her. You could wear Nascar wife beaters everyday if you drop $1000 a day for her to go buy up whetever some gold digging ***** wants. If I had a bunch of money I would pull what Dave Chappelle did and call up all my old ex-girlfriends and show them all the money I had and get them to believe that I would take care of them and then throw them to the curb for being gold diggers. That would be awesome and bring a smile to my face.
OMG how is it possible to overthink and over*****yze a list as fluffy and purposefully silly as this? Somehow we’ve managed.
Now someone needs to make the list “how to get a sugar daddy”.
28 Dave4248: Be rich s/be #1-#8. It’s the ONLY thing you need.
43 Bob: A sugardaddy is a guy with money who, because of his money, gets women he otherwise would not get. That’s it.
Witness J. Howard Marshall
I guess there are different interpretations on what a sugar daddy is or what he’s all about.
When I think of sugardaddy I think of a heavy set rich guy with a cigar who is attracted to un-educated women with big boobs. The only thing he has to worry about to please his girl is having enough money to give her for her hair & nail appointments and shopping sprees and she gives him ***** and shallow compliments to boost his ego in return.
I’m not saying the stuff on this this list is wrong, I just have a different version as to what a sugardaddy is.
How to get a sugar daddy?:
1.Be hot
2.Big breasts
3.Don’t sleep around
4.Don’t say stupid things in public
5.Don’t act like it is your money
6.Don’t argue w/ the Sugar Daddy
7.Don’t have kids
8.Don’t complain
9.Be exaclty what he wants (he can get rid of you as quick as he aquired you)
10.Be in good shape
@bucslim
I guess the Christian women I have been with just we’re not that great experiences. Let me know if you have better luck.
40 TEX
And a nice bum
New tabs are a great
“I’m gonna straight up he-***** man slap you!”
Oh wait, thats for being a gigolo.
Dammit, this isn’t the Hustler forums?
Christian ladys are fine~
As for good manners, don’t forget that a gentleman NEVER shakes a woman’s hand unless she offers it first.
52. warrrreagl – May 13th, 2009 at 9:36 am
As for good manners, don’t forget that a gentleman NEVER shakes a woman’s hand unless she offers it first.
As for good manners, don’t forget that a gentleman NEVER shakes a woman’s BOOBS unless she offers them.
Warrrr, I HATE it when guys want to shake hands. Why does any guy think I want to shake hands?
Haha, funny list. My hubby has 4 of 10, 5 if you’re willing to count our classic Mustang in lieu of the Aston I would prefer. I guess I’m just willing to settle.
Rushfan; As an offer of friendship? The same as they would offer a man their hand?
Not such an interesting list for me, although I did enjoy J’s tip of the top ways to fly under the radar.
#2 – you said it!
#55 – Mom424 “I guess I’m just willing to settle.” – my philosophy exactly. If I ain’t got it, I don’t need it. Besides, I look a prick in designer gear, a scrubber in a posh car, a dweeb with a credit card, and snob with a silky voice, a prat talking small talk. So yeah, I’m non of those things ‘cus I wouldn’t feel like ME any other way.
I think I’ll forword this list to my boyfriend.
The only time I can get him to clean up is to promise to shower with him and then help him get ready while I’m still naked…lol.
#54: Rushfan – The act of touching as a greeting goes back 200,000 years and is the best way to reassure the receiver that you are not a threat. After the inital bearing of the teeth (which later developed into the ‘smile’), such greetings then included: back patting, shoulder holding, hand holding, forehead to forehead touching, finger touching, and placing the lips to parts of others face. This was an essential process as the receiver would then be many times more confident, comfortable and open to communication, and of course more open towards anothers advances.
As the world became more ‘civilised’ standard ways of greeting became the hand shake and the kiss. Today, in a world of ‘comfort zones’, the act of touching has been diminished; and with the inclusion of the hand wave, the head nod (or toss), and the simple smile taking presidence over touching, a certain sense of comradship and community is being replaced by individualism.
This list disappointed me… =[ Seems quite pointless, shallow, and dull. I thought this website offered bizarre or informative lists.