In some places, marriage to the first cousin is illegal – in others it is advised! Through history there have been many famous people who, for reasons known only to them, have married within the family. This is a list of 10 of the most famous people who have done this.
Jesse James married his first cousin Zerelda “Zee” Mimms, who was named after Jesse’s own mother. They had two children and remained married until Jesse’s death in 1882 at the age of 34.
Although they had met as children, they became reacquainted after a dinner at the White House in 1902 held by Eleanor’s uncle and Franklin’s fifth cousin, President Teddy Roosevelt. FDR was 20 at the time and was attending Harvard. They were married on St. Patrick’s Day, 1905, and had six children.
In 1707 Johann Sebastian Bach married his second cousin on his father’s side, Maria Barbara Bach. She died in 1720. Not much is known about their marriage, but he remarried less than two years after her death.
H.G. Wells first cousin Isabel Mary Wells, who he left after only three years. Wells was an English writer most famous today for the science fiction novels he published between 1895 and 1901: The Time Machine, The Island of Doctor Moreau, The Invisible Man, The War of the Worlds, When the Sleeper Wakes, and The First Men in the Moon.
Thomas Jefferson married his third cousin Martha Wayles Skelton Jefferson in 1772. They had six children together. Martha died on September 6, 1782 and Jefferson never remarried.
Albert married his second cousin Elsa in 1919, not too long after his divorce from his first wife Mileva. Elsa died in 1936 due to various health problems, and though Albert never married again he had several girlfriends until his death in 1955.
All natural selection jokes aside, the man who popularized the theory of evolution married his first cousin Emma Wedgwood. They had a total of ten children. Darwin died in 1882.
At the age of 20 poet Edgar Allen Poe moved in with his aunt, uncle, and cousin after his father left and his mother had died. It was there in Baltimore that he met his seven year old cousin Virginia, who he fell in love with and married when she was only thirteen. She died eighteen years later in 1847, and Poe died only two years after Virginia’s death.
In 1957 famous rock and roll musician Jerry Lee Lewis married his cousin Myra, who was only 13 at the time. He lost an incredible amount of respect and credibility. The marriage almost ended his career and caused him to move from rock to a more country style. They had two children together, and ended up divorced in 1970. [Image: Jerry Lee Lewis and his Wife Myra]
Governor Rudy Giuliani married a woman who he thought to be his third cousin, Regina Peruggi, in 1968. It wasn’t until many years later that they realized that they were actually second cousins. Regina and Rudy divorced in 1982, and Rudy married his second wife Donna Hanover in 1984.
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I didn’t know people could still get married to 13yr olds in the ’50s! (In Western countries I mean)
How can you get married to someone who you know is related to you and not realise that they’re your 2nd, not 3rd, cousin? Seems weird to me.
Wow, now thats an interesting list. Darwin?! What happened to survival of the fittest!
apparently, some things did fit…
he actually worked out his relatedness to see what the negative points were about it, genetically speaking, having kids with a second cousin is not harmful
Its legan in Japan
legan = legal
=/ sorry
hehe – Tempyra: that one shocked me too!
Ruairi: I guess the question is – where are the offspring?
Nice list – I didn’t realize so many people married their cousins… But then you look at the list and most of them are, uh… eccentric. So it’s not too much of a shocker.
PS. It’s still legal in most states to marry in your early teens – with parental consent.
Man I was surprised to see Franklin D. Roosevelt up there but I was shocked when I saw Rudy Giuliani! Wow…just wow. I’m getting blood tests done before I get married! haha
Giuliani was a big surprise to me too
Einstein had “several girlfriends…” By a mile, that is the biggest understatement ever uttered on Listverse.
relatively speaking…
warrrreagl: I honestly can’t say I see the appeal
like this "Oh please please please please forgodsake please!"
Wow! Very interesting list!!
Getting married at 13… I can’t imagine!!! Though my ancestors probably would already be married and have at least one child by that age (not with cousins though). haha
MAYOR Guliani….not Governor
Giuliani was a definate surpise for me.
I’m sorry, Poe fell in love with a girl who was 7! Ew.
Actually, I read an article about how it may not be as “bad” genetically to have children with your cousins as it was thought. Still gross though.
It used to be more common when people tried to keep the inheritance of land within the family or where low population density restricted the available pool of potential marriage partners. So the well worn cliche of royalty/nobility and country folk being in-bred is probably based on some reality.
This list kinda makes me want to vomit.
Tempyra, my parents both have extemely large families and i would be hard pressed to tell you which of my cousins are 2nd or 3rd cousins. My parents would probably have to do a lot of thinking about it too. Giuliani probably should have figured it out before they got married. But its really not that big a deal.
Poe is now even more creepy…ugh! Nice list
I’d thought that Eleanore was Teddy’s granddaughter. I know that she was among Teddy’s favorite relatives, & she played in the new Oval Office as a girl.
AAAAGH! Why is everyone so casual about this?!? This is shockingly and utterly DISGUSTING!!!!!!
WHY WHY WHY did these people do this with their cousins??? What is this, the frickin’ middle ages???
Okay, so the risk of consanguinity birth defects between cousins is rather low, but it’s still sounds pretty incestuous to me. So, for me it’s time for BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARF!!!!!!!
way to be mature.
wow, weird list. i mean everybody has attractive cousins and all,”kissing cousins”, but marrying them and having multiple kids is crazy. And i dont understand why the parents never stoped the wedding
more than likely – in many instances the parents arranged the marriages.
AFAIK, there are no health problems associated with marriage outside of 1st cousins, and most of these aren’t first cousins. Personally, I’d never marry a 1st cousin as I feel they’re too close as family, but a 3rd cousin wouldn’t be a problem, as I’d barely know them anyway.
I really don’t understand where the western taboo of marrying your cousin, regardless of the length of relationship comes from. Perhaps it came from close family marriage (which is wrong, don’t mistake me) and spread to all cousins, but in the east it’s very common to marry your cousins.
Most of this happened over a hundred years ago. Back then it was expected that you marry within your own class, and I believe marrying your cousin/second cousin was not out of the ordinary. From what I know, arranged marriages in many cultures involve potential mates who are distant cousins.
In addition, when you live in a town that has not changed much in many years, it is entirely possible that most of the population is related to you somehow. So that’s why I don’t find this “shocking” or “disgusting.”
Also, in Chinese culture it is a strong taboo to marry someone with the same last name as you. However, if you marry someone on your mom’s side (someone who is related to you but not the same lastname) it is acceptable. So that one is a little strange!
Wow, I had no idea incest was so shockingly prevalent amongst historical celebrities.
o_O
adora bell: I would have thought it’d be quite easy to work out how related someone is to you. Both sides of my family are fairly large but I can say quite easily which of my cousins are 2nd or 3rd ones.
Even if you have a zillion relatives all you need to do is work out who your youngest common ancestor is… this chart explains it better than I would:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin#Chart
I don’t think it makes much difference, genetically, whether you marry a 2nd or 3rd cousin – I’m just surprised the Guilianis didn’t work it out correctly before getting hitched.
jfrater, Other composers who married their cousins were Sergei Rachmaninov & Edvard Grieg.
Why do I feel like I’ve read this list before?
Uhhh….the Queen? How about a great deal of the royal family?
http://www.mentalfloss.com/blogs/archives/10315/1/
Not quite the same one though
Poe… wow. I always knew he was messed up but… wow.
Tempyra (#1)
At the risk of perpetuating Southern stereotypes, I am from Tennessee and I know first hand that this practice was still quite common at that time. Several of my great aunts were married in the 1950s were 14 at the time.
Tempyra, thanks for the link. I too was a little surprised that they didn’t work it out right in the first place. But I’m extremely lazy and probably wouldn’t have worked it out beyond what my parents/grandparents told me.
I also really don’t understand why most people are completely squicked out by the whole marrying cousins thing. The only two people where it seems gross are Jerry Lewis and Poe cause umm marrying 13 year olds just doesn’t really fly with me whether you’re related or not.
Actually, this brings up a rather interesting set of postulates:
1 – In closed societies, ( small tribal groups with limited or no outside contact; nomadic tribes where choice is not always possible; Ultra-Orthodox Jews, whose laws must be followed, including as to whom one may wed) where the choices are limited, there do not seem to be many (though there are some) problems with marrying even within the immediate family.
2 – Procreation is a built-in genetic demand. If you can’t find a partner further afield than a cousin, that genetic demand takes over.
3 – Love is a funny old duck. You can’t choose with whom you’ll fall in love ( #1 aside, which has little to do with love and everything to do with availability). It’s no more disgusting to fall in love with a cousin, than is to fall in love with someone whose eye color is the same as yours…that being said, I can completely understand the reaction if you come from a close-knit family, and the cousins are practically like brothers and sisters. Yes, *that* would creep me out.
Edvard Grieg famous composer, In the Hall of the Mountain King, Morning Mood, married his first cousin. I don’t think it counts if you’re 5th cousins.
well, this list was…..informative….
My grandmother died years ago and my grandfather remarried a longtime family friend whose husband had passed away as well.
This woman is hellbent on her grandson and I getting together. He’s my age and we actually have some mutual friends because we went to the same college, but its just creepy to me. I know we aren’t related in any context but seriously…if you meet for the first time at a family dinner, dating should be automatically off limits. Someone needs to tell my stepgrandmother that.
I can’t believe no one has made an Arrested Development joke yet…
One thing that you should make clear is that marrying your third cousin is like marrying a stranger; the blood at that point is very far removed. Second cousins is cutting it a bit close…and should not be done. First cousins…well…it’s wrong. eww..
I didn’t know about Guiliani though. Weird.
stugy (#38)
(Spoilers)
My favorite Arrested Development moment ever is when George Michael and Maeby kiss and Maeby says “See we didn’t fall into hell!”
Then the floor collapses.
kowzilla: that’s so funny that you mention that, it’s one of my favorite episodes and I actually watched it 2 nights ago
Nice one, Poe.
It some places in America, it’s legal to marry your counsin IF… you can prove that you and your cousin can’t have children, usually medically or surgically.
i could have sworn u already had a list like this
When it gets into 4th cousins, I can’t help but feel that it’s not that bad. First cousin, kind of creepy. As for Poe, holy *****! That’s frightening! Fell in love with his 7 year old cousin? How were the uncle and aunt okay with that?
Not having any first cousins, and not knowing any of my further away ones, I can’t see the subject of this list being a problem for me
There is something really weird to be about the idea of marrying the child of my parent’s brother or sister. That is just too close to my parents. Bleh.
By many accounts, Poe adored his wife/cousin. Which at least implies that he loved her for her, not because he was a pedophile and loved children. He pretty much lost the plot after her death, descending even farther into alcoholism. (i say farther because he was already a drinker, partially due to her illness). I always thought he had an interesting life, very unusual man.
This is a great list, the kind I come to listverse for. Something unusual and a bit weird for us to learn
just to clarify, when I said him loving her seemed to imply that he wasn’t into children, I meant the fact that he still loved her when she was an adult seemed to imply that.
I found this list to be interesting. Some I had never heard of and some were old news.
There is a bizarre relationships list that had some incestuous ones on it. Maybe that is the list you all are thinking of when you say you thought oyu saw this already here. I can not find the link to it due to the site having problems right now tho.
I know a man who had a baby with his fiancee, the baby was born with some sort of defect and had to have his legs cut off. Come to find out, the two were related! Cant remember how they were related but it explained the birth defect. Crazy…and creepy.
Jerry Lee Lewis got married to his 13 year old cousin in Europe.
Darwin never said the phrase “Survival of the fittest” It was coined by Herbert Spencer a advocate of Social Darwinism.
So, “Barbara Bach” was married to Johann? I guess this was before she took up with Ringo Starr. She must have a thing for musicians.
Interesting and informative. The reactions as well…
The word ‘incest’ has be put into play here (#20, 24, 48)… I’m quite surprised that the religious crew hasn’t added their voice.
DanielleR, Thank you for an interesting read.
ps. I wouldn’t marry my cousin, but that’s only because we’ve met
Oh, and there is a slight error in description #1 – Giuliani was a Mayor not Governor.
I’m surprised with this list not because these people were married to their cousins up until the fifties, but with the fact that most of these people are actually people I recognize almost instantly. Other than that, it semi-creeps me out.
This is a list alright, I’m surprised by Rudy Guiliani the most, that is truly a horror story.
Another composer: Igor Stravinsky.
I think this list should have stuck to first cousins – beyond that the genetic factor gets considerable less.
I have exactly 2 cousins (my mother was an only child and my father had one surviving brother), older, living in different states of Australia and married by the time I met them. I had more to do with my mother’s cousins (younger than her, possibly closer in age to us).
Within most national groups, there is a variety of relatedness. It would be unusual to meet someone in your national group who wasn’t related to you in some way. It was discovered last year that Dick Cheney and Barack Obama were distantly related. In WWI, the king of England, the Emperor of Germany and the tsar of Russia were either first cousins or once removed.
Very few societies regard cousins as incest. In case the religious crew shows up, I’ll mention that the bible doesn’t regard cousins as incest.
Actually, The King James Bible, Leviticus 18:6 says, "None of you shall approach to any that is near of kin to him, to uncover their nakedness: I am the Lord.
Also, if anyone's interested, President John Adams and his wife Abigail were cousins. (Third I believe) And in 1828, John Adams the second, son of John Quincy Adams, and Grandson of John Adams, married his first cousin in the Whitehouse. And not only that, but nine months later, they had a daughter, Mary Adams, and in 1853 she married one of her cousins, and both bride and groom were kinfolk of President John Adams.
I’m not entirely grossed out by this. Back in the day, due to travel and social constraints, your choices for a mate were much more limited. (As mentioned by Segue #33) To me, it matters much more how you were raised than the actual blood relationship. At least when you get further away than 1st cousins, and sometimes even that close. If you were all raised together, like close families often are, then it is creepy and sort of sickening. When you meet later in life, well sometimes ***** just happens.
A few cross the line though eh? JLL and his 13 year old cousin. That is creepy any way you look at it.
I have over 50 first cousins. I’m Irish: end of explanation.
I suppose the diaspora counteracts this, but presumably a large chunk of the population of Ireland will be my third or fourth cousins…
These are some of my favorite people! I’ll never look at them the same way again o_O
And I was surprised to see Giuliani on the list…