Children are the future and it is the responsibility of adults to protect them and ensure that they get the best footing in life. Unfortunately this is not always the case in many nations around the world – including our own! This list looks at ten of the worst situations that children today are forced to face. It is hard to believe that these situations still occur, but learning about them is a good way to start trying to help.
Palestinian children are taught to hate Jews, to glorify “jihad” (holy war), violence, death and child martyrdom almost from birth, as an essential part of their culture and destiny. As captured on an Israeli video documentary produced in 1998, a “Sesame Street”-like children’s program called the “Children’s Club” — complete with puppet shows, songs, Mickey Mouse and other characters — focused on inculcating intense hatred of Jews and a passion for engaging in and celebrating violence against them in a perpetual “jihad” until the day the Israeli flags come down from above “Palestinian land” and the Palestinian flag is raised.
In Madrasas, Islamic schools for study of pure Islamic religion, the culprits are the religious teachers; and the victims include helpless innocent underage students. The sacred teacher-student relationship is given a new definition in these Islamic schools. Following is the bitter experience of a 12 years old madrasa student from Kenya who was rescued during January 2003.
“It was a terrible place, they chain both legs and both arms, sometimes hands and feet together, They beat us at lunch time, dinner time and grab both legs and hands and give us lashes on the buttocks. We sleep in chains, eat in chains, and go to the toilets in chains. Sometimes we are hooked on the roof in chains and left hanging. We have to memorize the Koran and get punished if we cannot recite the Koran in the classroom”.
Chaining incidents are rare in Bangladeshi madrasas. Child torture incidents in madrasas are reported mostly in Pakistan, Afghanistan and Sudan. The number of students are estimated somewhere between eight hundred thousands to one million. They are often run by religious organizations and lure young children mainly from poor families by providing free food and lodging. Some of the schools even provide intensive political and armed training.
According to UNICEF, 25,000 children die each day due to poverty. Around 27-28 percent of all children in developing countries are estimated to be underweight or stunted. The two regions that account for the bulk of the deficit are South Asia and sub-Saharan Africa. Some 1.1 billion people in developing countries have inadequate access to water, and 2.6 billion lack basic sanitation. Almost two in three people lacking access to clean water. Some 1.8 million child deaths each year as a result of diarrhea. For the 1.9 billion children from the developing world, there are: 640 million without adequate shelter (1 in 3), 400 million with no access to safe water (1 in 5) and 270 million with no access to health services (1 in 7). 10.6 million died in 2003 before they reached the age of 5 (same as children population in France, Germany, Greece and Italy.) 1.4 million die each year from lack of access to safe drinking water and adequate sanitation. 2.2 million children die each year because they are not immunized. Millions of parents in developing countries must daily cope with the fact that their children may not survive the first critical years of life; in many cases, the diseases that threaten their children’s lives are preventable.
Of the 50 million refugees and displaced people in the world, approximately half are children. War is the primary factor in the creation of child refugees. It is also a principle cause of child death, injury, and loss of parents. In the last decade, war has killed more than 2 million children, wounded another 6 million, and orphaned about 1 million. Children also flee their homes because they fear various forms of abuse such as rape, sexual slavery, and child labor. Circumstances of birth also play a role in depriving children of a legal home. Each year 40 million children are not registered at birth, depriving them of nationality and a legal name.
The combined ravages of AIDS and war have created a large pool of orphan refugees and displaced children, particularly in Africa. The toll of Rwanda’s civil war, for example, left orphan children to head some 45,000 Rwandan households, with 90 percent of these headed by girls. “Separated Children” are those under age 18 and living outside their country of origin without parents or legal guardians to care for or protect them. Every year, about 20,000 separated children apply for asylum in Europe and North America. Overall, children account for approximately half of all individuals seeking legal asylum in developed countries. Separated children are not often legally recognized as refugees in western countries. In Europe, for example, where there may be as many as 50,000 separated children at any given time, only an estimated 1-5 percent of those who apply for asylum are granted refugee status.
More than 100 million children do not have access to school. Of the children who enroll in primary school, over 150 million drop out, while user fees, including levies, are still charged for access to education in 92 countries and that such charges have impact on excluding girls. 77 million children worldwide are not able to go to school due to lack of funds. For socially disadvantaged segments of the population like poor inhabitants of cities, AIDS orphans and the physically challenged, any access to education is often particularly difficult to obtain. The consequence of this lack of access to education is that 15 percent of those adolescents between 15 and 24 in third world countries are illiterate.
Location often contributes to a child’s lack of access and attendance to education. In certain areas of the world it is more difficult for children to get to school. For example, in high-altitude areas of India, severe weather conditions for more than 7 months of the year make school attendance erratic and force children to remain at home. Gender also contributes to a child’s lack of access and attendance to education. In 25 countries the proportion of boys enrolling in secondary school is higher than girls by 10% or more, and in five; India, Nepal, Togo, Turkey and Yemen, the gap exceeds 20%. The worst disparity is found in South Asia, where 52% of boys and only 33% of girls enroll; a gap of 10%. Enrollment is low for both boys and girls in sub-Saharan Africa, with rates of just 27% and 22%. Girls trail respectively behind. It is generally believed that girls are often discouraged from attending primary schooling, especially in less developed countries for religious and cultural reasons.
Neglect is an act of omission, or the absence of action. While the consequences of child neglect can be devastating, it leaves no visible marks. Moreover, it usually involves infants and very young children who cannot speak for themselves. James M. Gaudin Jr., in “Child Neglect: Short-Term and Long-Term Outcomes”, reported that, compared with non-maltreated and abused children, neglected children have the worst delays in language comprehension and expression. Psychologically neglected children also score lowest in IQ (Intelligence Quotient) tests.
Emotional neglect, in its most serious form, can result in the “non-organic failure to thrive syndrome,” a condition in which a child fails to develop physically or even to survive. According to Gaudin, studies have found that, even with aggressive intervention, the neglected child continues to deteriorate. The cooperation of the neglectful parents, which is crucial to the intervention, usually declines as the child’s condition worsens. This shows that it is sometimes not that easy to change the parental attributes that have contributed to the neglect in the first place.
Parental neglectful behaviors include not keeping the child clean, not providing enough clothes for keeping warm, not making sure the child attended school, not caring if the child got into trouble in school, not helping with homework, not helping the child do his best, not providing comfort when the child was upset, and not helping when the child had problems. The prevalence of childhood neglect ranged from 3.2% in New Hampshire, United States, to 10% in Montreal, Quebec, Canada, 19.4% in Singapore, and 36.4% in Pusan, Korea.
An estimated 211 million children between the ages of 5 and 14 are working around the world, according to the International Labor Organization. Of these, 120 million children are working full time to help support their impoverished families.
There are millions of children whose labor can be considered forced, not only because they are too young to choose to work, but also because they are, in fact, actively coerced into working. These include child bonded laborers — children whose labor is pledged by parents as payment or collateral on a debt — as well as children who are kidnapped or otherwise lured away from their families and imprisoned in sweatshops or brothels. In addition, millions of children around the world work unseen in domestic service — given or sold at a very early age to another family.
Forced child laborers work in conditions that have no resemblance to a free employment relationship. They receive little or no pay and have no control over their daily lives. They are often forced to work beyond their physical capacity and under conditions that seriously threaten their health, safety and development. In many cases their most basic rights, such as freedom of movement and expression, are suppressed. They are subject to physical and verbal abuse. Even in cases where they are not physically confined to their workplace, their situation may be so emotionally traumatizing and isolating that once drawn into forced labor they are unable to conceive of a way to escape.
In Thailand, NGOs have estimated that up to a third of prostitutes are children under 18. A study by the International Labor Organization on child prostitution in Vietnam reported that incidence of children in prostitution is steadily increasing and children under 18 make up between 5 percent and 20 percent of prostitution depending on the geographical area. In the Philippines, UNICEF estimated that there are 60,000 child prostitutes and many of the 200 brothels in the notorious Angeles City offer children for sex. In India as many as 200,000 Nepali girls, many under the age of 14, have been sold into red-light districts. Nepalese girls, especially virgins, are favored in India because of their fair skin and young looks. Every year about 10,000 Nepalese girls, most between the age of nine and 16, are sold to brothels in India. In El Salvador, one-third of the sexually exploited children between 14 and 17 years of age are boys. The median age for entering into prostitution among all children interviewed was 13 years.
The internet is a virtual playground for child predators. It is a place that operates largely outside of the law. While trading in pedophile pornography is illegal, lack of adequate funding means law enforcement officials are able to investigate just two percent of their leads. Also, according to Interpol statistics, only one-half of one percent are ever prosecuted.
On a show that aired September 2, 2008, Oprah Winfrey showed a map that clearly conveyed how fast one pornographic image of a child being molested can spread. From a computer in Washington, DC, the image spread within 24 hours, all across the United States. The demand for new images and videos is so high that authorities report they are tracking increasingly brutal pornography with younger and younger victims.
Trafficking is the fastest growing means by which people are forced into slavery. It affects every continent and most countries. Currently, children are trafficked from countries such as Bangladesh, Pakistan, Sudan and Yemen to be used as camel jockeys in the UAE. Furthermore, Anti-Slavery International also has evidence that children are also being trafficked to be used as camel jockeys in other Gulf states including Kuwait, Qatar, Oman, and also internally in Sudan. The use of children as jockeys in camel racing is itself extremely dangerous and can result in serious injury and even death. Some children are also abused by the traffickers and employers, for example by depriving them of food and beating them. The children’s separation from their families and their transportation to a country where the people, culture and usually the language are completely unknown leaves them dependent on their employers and de facto forced laborers.
According to UNICEF, over 200,000 children work as slaves in West and Central Africa. Boys are usually sold to work on cotton and cocoa plantations while girls are used as domestic servants and prostitutes. In some cases, children are kidnapped outright and sold into slavery while in others, families sell their children, mostly girls, for as little as $14.
Around the world, children are singled out for recruitment by both armed forces and armed opposition groups, and exploited as combatants. Approximately 250,000 children under the age of 18 are thought to be fighting in conflicts around the world, and hundreds of thousands more are members of armed forces who could be sent into combat at any time. Although most child soldiers are between 15 and 18 years old, significant recruitment starts at the age of 10 and the use of even younger children has been recorded.
Easily manipulated, children are sometimes coerced to commit grave atrocities, including rape and murder of civilians using assault rifles such as AK-47s and G4s. Some are forced to injure or kill members of their own families or other child soldiers. Others serve as porters, cooks, guards, messengers, spies, and sex slaves.






























Mol@Moloch1123 (115):
Im not the one calling others “*****!!!!!”
You should direct that at that nutcase.
I believe the children are our future
Teach them well and let them lead the way
Show them all the beauty they possess inside
Give them a sense of pride to make it easier
Let the children’s laughter remind us how we used to be…
The only thing i talked about Islam was the definition of Jihad so pipe down yourself and stop manipulating my words.
@ TruthSeeker:
This song was for you!! You need love in your heart!!
to randomness – what education do u have to show that u really understand the brain of a child. Did u know that a child’s brain is not fully developed till the age of 25. Geography doesn’t change the brain growth .. neither does culture.
Having known scores of children .. I would not trust someone of that young age (14/15) no matter where in the world they reside… to make any life altering decisions.
Great list rushfan, the list started off so well, its a pity its turned into a political slinging match.
@ oouchan 1 Im quite a hand at sharpening knives, count me in.
Y@Travis (123):
You sure like to demonize people.
Remember im the one supporting life rather ending it.
Here, Travis. We (or rather, most of us muslims) never claim that palestinians haven’t killed a single jew in the history of their struggle, but lets get down to the facts. Can you, sanely, compare the atrocities commited by the Israelis to the (alleged) atrocities commited by the palestinians. As another respectable muslim (…) brother just pointed out, they have commited around 50 massacres of completely innocent children. Those children then grow up with the scars inflicted by Israeli occupation armies or the IDF, & become directors, producers, writers etc etc. How then, in a proper state of mind, do you expect them to show love towards Israelis? Really, it boggles me how the real topic was just ignored & 2 LVers came down to petty name calling & fighting.
@116 (moloch 1123) Congratulations, you have just won the award for being the most ignorant person on the planet. My hearty congrats to you.
What you just said was so *****ing stupid that i had to read it twice. Hmm, if the Palestinian struggle for re-acquiring their land yielded no results, they should keep quiet. Wow, just WOW. So, if someone came & just told you get the ***** outta your house so that they, without your permission, could build a house on your land, you would, most likely, tell them that since they are too powerful for you, you won’t resist & yes, please come in & take my land because I don’t dare stand up against you. Yes, thats the apex of stupidity. As for your claim that all their massacres where in retaliation, kid, learn & then come & talk in a public debate.
as a bonus you should have had kids that are guilted/coerced/forced to play the sports that their parents failed at so that they can get their sick vicarious rocks off.
@7raul7 (127):
Well said akhi.
Good job on getting tears outta everyone here Rushfan.
Well i got two little ones and everyday i bust my ass working to try to get them everything i didnt have and i tell my wife not to work so that they could have her by their side to take care of them and keep them straight. Oh yeah and Ooochan i’ll help with the skinning it sounds fun and then smash a rock on their face just for fun after.
what a sad world we live in
This is a very disturbing list, I can’t believe this kind of stuff is happening to children worldwide. And I agree with undauntedwarrior, why is there always a freaking political debate?
@EinsteinGuy (132):
You dont live up to your title.
@TruthSeeker (133): What. It’s just a name.
@Moloch1123 (115) and Truthseeker:
Randall generally stays out of this debate, because the fact is that BOTH the Israelis and the Palestinians have, at various times, behaved monstrously, stupidly, and criminally.
It’s despicable how both sides seem more interested in maintaining—even encouraging—the hate between them than in trying to end it.
Truthseeker “supporting life”? Rubbish. Your words clearly indicate otherwise. You must have typed “Zionist” a hundred times in your successive rants here. Rationality obviously, therefore, eludes you.
On the other hand, is Zionism real? Of course it’s real. There was NO REASON for Israel to allow new settlements on land which should have been off limits to said settlements. But clearly there are people in Israel who don’t give a damn about trying to play it fair and decent with the Palestinians. Do the Israelis commit atrocities against the Palestinians? Sure they do, and have. The Palestinians respond in kind, then the Israelis respond in kind. And so it goes. Who started it? Who cares. It goes on and on, and neither side seems truly interested in stopping it. They’d rather educate their children to hate and murder the enemy. They’d rather roll into settlements with tanks and guns. They’d rather blow themselves up in stupid, useless acts of mindless violence.
Arabs, including the Palestinians, love to play the perennial victim; it’s always *someone else’s fault* that their lives are miserable and wretched—America’s, or the West in general, or the Israelis, or what have you. It never occurs to them that they are responsible for what they do and say, and that to take their hatred down a notch or two might lead them somewhere other than just more victimization.
Similarly, the Israelis seem more interested in a perennial game of peeing on their land to establish their dominance of the territory—destroying and ravaging in order to make a point, to “strike back” and so on… perhaps sometimes for justified reasons but more often than not simply to perpetuate the game. And the game is one of unending violence.
When Israel does hold a hand out, it gets slapped away and attacked—and when the Palestinians DO behave more reasonably, they end up cheated out of the agreements that were made to convince them to ACT thus more reasonably.
Both sides are sickening and miserable… and I’d almost say they deserve each other.
But how much of this is OUR fault in the US, I often wonder. The conflict between Israel and the Palestinians is largely a product of two things: the outmoded and misery-creating doctrine of Nationalism, which insisted that the Jews MUST have a nation of their own—understandable, of course, given what had just been done to them during WWII, in the Holocaust—but a backward step on every other front if you ask me, since we had just FOUGHT that goddamn war to put an END to monstrous forms of nationalism. And the other factor was the Cold War itself, which pitted one half of the world against the other and LED to little hotspots of surrogate violence like the Middle East and in particular Israel/Palestine.
The US is not wholly responsible, but it helped make the mess. But for the life of me I don’t know how the hell we even begin to help clean it up. The two sides of it are so filled with vitriol and hate that they spend most of their time not even thinking, let alone behaving, like human beings.
Putting guns and bombs in the hands of children, and teaching them to hate—HOWEVER UNDERSTANDABLE it may sometimes seem—is BARBARIC and MONSTROUS. It’s like putting a gun to one’s own head and pulling the trigger again and again and again and again….
On the other hand, I have long wanted my government to stop kissing up to the Israelis and to sincerly pressure them to STOP this unending conflict in as much as it is in their power to do so. But perhaps it’s past the point where even pressure from the US would really change anything. I don’t know. I find it hard to think about the entire mess too much. It only depresses me and fills me with revulsion and disgust.
I’m hating the fact that there’s always a mud-slinging debate on every list I read. Peace.
whenever there is a war, there are war crimes. This is a very sad truth.
that being said, one should understand that while islam claims to be a religion of peace, there have been 13,459 islamic terrorist attacks since sept. 11th 2001. of course, since most of these attacks were against fellow muslims, no one really notices. that and the fact that these attacks are so commonplace, it’s hardly newsworthy anymore.
to the defenders of islam: stop whining about injustices and how naughty the other side may be, but rather shout from every mosque that murder is never justifiable.
the only voice of islamic sanity that i can recall is wafa sultan who wrote: “The trouble with Islam is deeply rooted in its teachings. Islam is not only a religion. Islam [is] also a political ideology that preaches violence and applies its agenda by force.”
source: http://www.thereligionofpeace.com/
@EinsteinGuy (134):
Touche.
I agree with Randall. I’d rather stay out of the debate, too.
@stevenh (137):
Hilarious how you always sperate Islam from all other religions.
@TruthSeeker (140):
hilarious how you know what i “always” do.
your extensive knowledge must be based on your having read about 20 months of comments that i have been posting to this site. i will state publicly, here and now, that knowing of your research into my psyche and beliefs prior to posting #140, i admire your perseverance and diligence in finding the truth.
or could i possibly be wrong? could it be that you have made your comment based on limited knowledge and no research into my beliefs? could it be, in fact, that all of your comments are just as shallow?
nah, that would be too easy.
I’M WILLING TO BET 50 BUCKS THAT OF THE PEOPLE WHO SAID THEY WERE “SICKENED” OR “DISGUSTED” BY THE STUFF ON THIS LIST, AND THEY WISH THEY COULD HURT THE PEOPLE BEHIND THESE ACTS, NOT ONE SERIOUSLY CONSIDERED DONATING TO “SAVE THE CHILDREN’ OR ANY OTHER CHARITIES.
The great thing about killing in the name of a god is that.
1) You don’t have to clame responcibility for your actions.
2) After life pension plan.
3) You know that your beleif system is the correct one so your actions are just.
4) You can’t kill a god to stop him from giving orders because he doesn’t exist.
Don’t forget that some people kidnap children and then sell their organs.
And also, being an orphan is one of the worst things that could happen to a child, IMO.
Dont get me wrong, but it *****es me off when people (especially those not living in poor countries) whine about how they dont have money or luxurious cars and homes, or how they didn’t have the best toys when they were kids; come on now, have a moment and think about these people; these children dont even have a childhood!
Whenever I sit in front of my computer, in a comfy chair, in my home, I feel very fortunate.
@Pickle (142): Less caffeine will do wonders. No need to shout. Many people already commented that they do help children…myself included. Sadly others just don’t.
But even if we help by educating others….then we are still helping.
@ 142 Pickle… It would really help the cause if you donate that 50 bucks to a charity.
I don’t see how everybody is so outrageously biased against the Palestines. I mean before 1947 an Israeli state didn’t even exist. What the Israelis have done to Palestine from then till now is nothing short of a bloody invasion. I can feel the Palestinian hatred in my heart.
It’s Israel’s fault that the region has come to this mess now. You don’t just move in into a fully sovereign country uninvited. That kinda stuff leads to trouble. For the purpose of being impartial, when mentioning the atrocities of the Palestines, also point out the many bloody massacres Israel has carried out.
@ stevenh – 141 well commented
@ Pickle – 142 – read the entire list and then add up what you owe the List verses.
@Adam (146):
So simple, yet alot of people find so hard to understand.
Pickle: Cut the self-righteous bull*****.
“Palestinian children are taught to hate Jews, to glorify “jihad” (holy war), violence, death and child martyrdom almost from birth, as an essential part of their culture and destiny.”
Yeah, right.
Why do third world countries keep having children??
It would be cheaper for us to give them lots of condoms, instead of bailing them out of financial crises, and sending them food, blankets etc.
@TruthSeeker (148):
Read my post at #135.
I don’t see why people feel the need to side with one or the other in the Israel/Palestine conflict. BOTH sides have done wrong, and BOTH sides have been wronged. Personally, my support lies with the innocent civilians who are caught in the middle of the conflict, Palestinian and Israeli alike, as it’s the leaders of each respective group that are to blame for what is happening.
@Adam (146):
Palestine was not ever, technically, a sovereign state, Adam. It was a British Mandate territory.
Very sobering list. I once read a book about how Nepal girls are sold to the India Red Light District. It was called Sold. IT was a very sad book, but really opened my eyes to what’s happening around the world with children, and how lucky I am. Someday, when I’m old enough, I wish to adopt at least one child that wouldn’t have a good life otherwise. thank you for this list!
@Pickle (142):
STFU – i haven’t just ‘considered’…i actually HAVE.
@boomshine87 (151): So only people in highly industrialized countries should be able to procreate? There are so many things wrong with that idea that I can’t even begin to bring them up.
What happened to cymraebachen87? anyone know?
@TruthSeeker (148): “Because no other peoples had ever established a national homeland in “Palestine” since the Jews had done it 2,000 years before, the British “looked favorably” upon the creation of a Jewish National Homeland throughout ALL of Palestine. The Jews had already begun mass immigration into Palestine in the 1880′s in an effort to rid the land of swamps and malaria and prepare for the rebirth of Israel. This Jewish effort to revitalize the land attracted an equally large immigration of Arabs from neighboring areas who were drawn by employment opportunities and healthier living conditions. There was never any attempt to “rid” the area of what few indigenous Arabs there were or those Arab masses that immigrated into this area along with the Jews! “
You should only procreate if you can financially and physically/emotionally take care of your kids. If you can’t you should not bring innocent babies into a life of hell. No matter what country you are from.
Adam, it is OK dear. Most of the commentators here are from the west, mostly from the US so there is no surprise about the comments.
But what amazes me is that we Muslims are always accused of being filled with hate, that we are always wrong and the other sides is always right and full of love that we refuse. Reading the comments here, well need I say more then?
Granted, we Muslims are full of hatred but for a reason, and we don’t hate any two-legged creature that is not a Muslim.
After WWII, a war that killed millions of civilians, instead of making the world a better place and learning the lessons from that destructive war and sowing the seeds of peace, the west embarked on a destructive and murderous spree. Before even the millions of civilians killed, some deliberately, were buried, they were already continuing their colonisation of the whole world, raping the countries of its resources and murdering those who resisted them. Then they planted, most regrettably, the zionists that we Muslims had nothing to do with their murder. Of course, we are always wrong.
Ever wondered why this so-called terrorism only started almost exclusively in the last 3 decades. Ever wondered why Al-Qaeda, Hamas and Hizbullah are all, yes ALL, 80s organisations. Ever wondered why there are no attacks in Switzerland or the many other countries around the world.
The world will never be a perfect placed because it is inhabited by imperfect beings but it can defintiely be bettered to make it a more peaceful place than the mess we live in today. If only.
I have followed the Israeli Palestinian “war” for that past few years with great interest. I have to agree with Randall and others that the fault lies with both sides equally. As Gandhi famously said “an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind” and that is what is happening over there, simple retaliation over and over again. My big grievance with all of it is that the Palestinian side is almost never reported, at least here in the USA. You never hear their side of it. They are always the terrorists and never the victims when quite often, especially recently they have been. (see the blockade of the gaza strip for more) I understand that the Palestinians need to stop reacting with violence but the western world also needs to see the crimes that Israel has committed against the Palestinians.
As a so called “democracy” Israel needs to step up and st
I have followed the Israeli Palestinian “war” for that past few years with great interest. I have to agree with Randall and others that the fault lies with both sides equally. As Gandhi famously said “an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind” and that is what is happening over there, simple retaliation over and over again. My big grievance with all of it is that the Palestinian side is almost never reported, at least here in the USA. You never hear their side of it. They are always the terrorists and never the victims when quite often, especially recently they have been. (see the blockade of the gaza strip for more) I understand that the Palestinians need to stop reacting with violence but the western world also needs to see the crimes that Israel has committed against the Palestinians.
As a so called “democracy” Israel needs to step up and stop violating international law and the Geneva conventions.
crap double post stupid computer. Hey Mom can you delete that first one for me.
Very interesting list.
I know I will be hated for this, but I rather dislike children. I am not a children’s person at all.
However, I do believe that anyone who harms a child has a special place in Hell reserved just for them.
Well Rosa if you dont like kids dont make any and you’ll be good. But for the rest of dumb people here this is not a list on muslims or palestinians war its about the world in general so stop making stupid coments on how your the victim or not it doesn’t matter no one is really paying attention to any of that *****. GET OVER IT!!!!!!!
Those pictures are just heartbreaking, as are the statistics. Kudos on a very thought-provoking list, rushfan.
Apparently people don’t understand that having kids is NOT a good thing in this day in age.
I can’t imagine the thought process here. “wow, I see all these horrible things happening to children where I live, wouldn’t it be great if I had one?”
@Enigma (161):
It’s interesting that you make your final statement about making the world a better and more peaceful place after a comment which is rather brimming with vitriol. I’d be sincerely interested to hear, then, what you recommend ought to happen in the world, in order to make it a “better” and more peaceful place. One suspects that you’d say, if you were honest, that you’d like to see the West generally and the US specifically get its comeuppance—but I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt on that and wait to hear what you have to say.
“Granted, we Muslims are full of hatred but for a reason,”
So in the same breath that you make a seemingly indigant comment about Muslims being unfairly regarded as being “full of hate,” you then turn around and admit that they are just that.
And of course, those who are consumed with hatred will always attempt to excuse their hatred by claiming that they “have reasons.”
This is more what I was talking about earlier. A consistent habit amongst Arabs in general to play the victim. Now, it isn’t that Arabs haven’t BEEN the victim on many occasions—but after a time it becomes habit to always assume that one is a victim and to fail, then, to take responsiblity for oneself or one’s people, because it is, after all, always “someone else’s” fault.
No, Enigma—Arabs do NOT have “reasons” to be filled with hatred (if in fact they are, which I do not believe). They have, that is, no MORE reason to feel hatred than any other group of people on earth.
“After WWII, a war that killed millions of civilians, instead of making the world a better place and learning the lessons from that destructive war and sowing the seeds of peace, the west embarked on a destructive and murderous spree.”
This is a distortion of facts and history. In truth, the West embarked on a Cold War with the able assistance of an enemy in the East that wanted that Cold War just as badly as the West did in defensive terms. Did the rest of the world suffer? Yes. But let’s not blame it on the West alone.
Moreover, let’s not also gloss over the fact that a great deal DID change in the post-war world. There WAS a pressure placed on the old western powers to de-colonize—a pressure LARGELY applied by the United States, by the way—and that de-colonization did occur. Of course, given the exigencies of the Cold War, this just meant that the Third World traded colonialism for the interventionism of East and West and the behind-the-scenes manipulation by both powers—but again, this can hardly be said to be the “fault” exclusively, of the West or the United States.
“Then they planted, most regrettably, the zionists that we Muslims had nothing to do with their murder. Of course, we are always wrong.”
Can we stop throwing the term “Zionist” around all the time, to begin with? There are Zionists in the world, yes. But not all Israelis are “zionist” and not all those who support Israel are zionist or zionist-sympathizers.
Next, clarity demands that this be corrected: The west did not “plant” the Jews in Israel… there was, in fact, a large population of them in Palestine already, and had been since at least the late 19th century. Now, yes–sympathizing with the plight of the Jews (finally) AND wishing for a bulwark against the spread of Communism in the Middle East (which was paranoid of us) the West, after some disagreement, allowed the creation of the state of Israel and eventually even encouraged it. Policy clumsiness or deliberate conspiracy? The answer is clumsiness, Enigma. There’s no excuse for this, and I offer none. I personally believe it was something of a regrettable error.
But what now, after all this time? What is your recommendation for ending it? The destruction of Israel? Hardly peaceful or a “betterment.” Perhaps, instead, ALL sides in this conflict could take some responsibility and STOP the hatred and violence. There ought to be a Palestinian state, and Israel ought to be allowed its existence. But of course as well know it is not that simple and never will be. Sadly.
“Ever wondered why this so-called terrorism only started almost exclusively in the last 3 decades. Ever wondered why Al-Qaeda, Hamas and Hizbullah are all, yes ALL, 80s organisations.”
In point of fact, each one of these follows on the heels of far older terrorist organizations that have existed in the Middle East—as well as other parts of the world–since at least the 1940s, Enigma. Your knowledge of history is clearly faulty. These organizations THEMSELVES may have more recent context, but their roots are far older.
“The world will never be a perfect placed because it is inhabited by imperfect beings but it can defintiely be bettered to make it a more peaceful place than the mess we live in today. If only.”
And again, I’d be interested to hear what your ideas are for this.
The direction these comments went in have really taken away from meaning of this list.
As someone who was abused in several ways as a child, and who has seen many other children suffer, it makes me really sad. It seems like you guys aren’t taking it seriously, to be honest.
@ABrutalKind (162):
@Adam (146):
@Enigma (161):
i very rarely describe my personal history on this site, but the appalling ignorance displayed here prompts me.
i have been on both sides of the israeli – arab border (israel, jordan and egypt), lived there during active wartime (the october 1973 war) and have carried a gun in the performance of my duties (though, thankfully, not into combat). while that does not make me an expert, i do have more than a passing interest in these matters.
both sides of this conflict have done some rather bad things.
just one fundamental difference (of many): it is the stated policy of the ‘freely elected’ palestinian governing organization to aid, abet and endorse terrorist activities such as sending random rockets into civilian zones, throwing political rivals off of roofs, and suicide bombings.
only when there is a palestinian public commission investigating into their own government involvement of suicide bombings (like mai lai in the usa or the kahan commission investigating sabra/shatila in israel) will the palestinians be ready to join the community of nations.
failing that, at least do not justify the celebration of violence as identified in item 10 of this list.
btw: please do not assume my biological or political heritage. you may just find yourself sadly mistaken.
wow… lot of controversy with this list. I’ve been a teacher for a long time now, I’ve seen the death, drug abuse and neglect, but this stuff beats all. I’m not going to comment on the ongoing debate too much, but all I am to ask is this, and I hope it changes this ongoing thread: despite all your rhetoric, everybody, what do YOU do today that is good for this world, and children?
This has been said earlier on this comments list, but I’ll say it again. Why don’t we take the Israeli/Palestinian argument to the forums, so we can focus on the list itself. It is about issues facing children worldwide, and I think (IMHO) that we need to focus on that and on ways that we can help to bring about change.
My problem is that we have to be very careful about WHERE we send money, clothing, food, etc. A lot of what we send never makes it to the intended program. Does anyone here know of any good, responsible programs that manage to get money and goods directly to the people in need rather than to the people causing the problems in the first place?
Whlie we were in Namibia, we stayed with a couple who work with the children of the village, running a school and a job training facility. I send supplies, even clothing, directly to them. I don’t know if they want me to broadcast their name and address on the internet, but I will find out.
What about Save the Children, UNICEF, Christian Children’s Fund or any other organization? Does anyone know their records as far as how much actually reaches the children?
I know, unfortunately, that a lot of food and clothing drops meant for refugee camps are intercepted by the villains in control and are never seen by the refugees. There is a lot of evil going on in the world. I believe that there can also be a lot of good going on, but we need to be smart about it.
So, is there anyone with reliable information about which charities we can help?
I’ll stay out of the debate, and, I would like to donate to a charity to help these children. This horrible stuff shouldn’t happen.
I agree with Boo Radley. Leave the Israeli-Palestian debate out of the comments, and just keep the comments focused on the list itself.
@Teek (168):
nice. as much as i love children, i agree…they may as well NOT be brought into the world if they are simply going to suffer.
there is a debate about whether or not to abort a fetus if it’s detected early on that they will be born with a terrible birth defect. i don’t mean something like down syndome, even though i certainly DO imagine some parents would do such a thing (if mothers are willing to toss a perfectly normal newborn into a dumpster, then a baby with down syndrome would be a monstrosity to some). there is a birth defect (i forget what it’s called) in which the baby has an incomplete cranium and lacks part of their brain or the whole brain entirely. when born, they are unable to feel love and really sense much of anything. they seizure for the few hours they’re alive. some people may feel every baby needs a chance of life, but why bring a baby into the world if it hardly is able to live a life at all, watching it suffer until it dies a few hours later?
i have a wonderful son in preschool and another on the way, and i couldn’t image loving anything more. i’m not saying the world i brought them into is the best world as it’s far from it, knowing that these sort of things are allowed to happen, but i’d give them the best of everything i am capable of giving (well, without spoiling them of course). makes me sick that children are treated this way.
dumpster babies, that’s another one…
a great list..but no.10 has made a great argument here, do you know why?because its reformed in a wrong way..the one who wrote it sounds as an islam-hater even if he/she doesnt mean it. Secondly, i love in the middle east and there is nothing like what you mentioned in point no.10, yes we have been taught when we were children that palestine is our rightful land, but we have been taught also that islam strongly forbids the murder of children, woman, unarmed men, and elderly. and the funniest thing is six months ago,1300 palestinians were massacred in gaza, 600 of them were children and all 1300 were civilians, forbidden weapons were used, mosques and UN schools were bombed, white sulfur was used, DIME bombs were used(bombs that cause cancer by time).I saw the parents cry over their dead children but I cant see it in this list.
one last thing, if both israelis and palestinians are mistaken then be fair and mention both of them.
Thanks
I agree with those that say let’s end this Israel/Palestine debate–it isn’t appropriate here. And after I said I wouldn’t involve myself in it, there I was doing just that.
So sorry to everyone for that, and I’m in full agreement—let’s keep this on topic for once.